Dillydo: is it considered cheating..........

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6/4/09 6:14 P

Its not cheating, like someone else said too its good when your sex drives arent equal, I've always had a much higher drive than my husband but I know that each morning after he leaves for work I can set aside a few minutes and sort myself out. He was getting really annoyed when I would "pressure" him every day so this works for us. Often we use them together too and have quite a collection building up, I need to replace a few things though. lol

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5/6/09 10:32 A

I by no means consider it cheating...though I may be byass(sp?) since I do sell them for a living.

I think some men may be intimidated by them since they can make it happen so fast, since you can have constant direct clitoral stimulation (which 87% of women need to reach orgasm).

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5/3/09 7:21 P

I agree it's not cheating. A lot of men feel intimidated by the thought of their woman using a vibrator/dildo. But if you make it a decision together and pick it out together and let him use it on you first he can become more comfortable with the idea of it. When I bought mine I got my man a Gigi from passions (AKA pocket pussy) We used our toys on each other before on ourselves. Its a good way to keep things spicy in the bedroom too! I've actually been considering making a video of me with my BOB (battery operated boyfriend) for my man. He loves the thought of female masturbation.

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5/1/09 11:09 P

I hope its not cheating b/c I use it WAAAAAY more than we have sex... I love the vibrations... itslike 1 minute and feels soooo good! so I love mine!!

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4/6/09 3:46 P

I don't think it's cheating, but I've neverbeen able to get into it...I need a man, not a piece of rubber and some vibrations.

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3/5/09 10:20 P

Not cheating at all. He doesn't know I have it, well...he know's I have something, I just wont tell him what. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't mind using it with me, but I'm a little shy about actually having it. If they can please themselves then why shouldn't we be able to also.

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12/10/08 2:42 P

I don't consider it cheating either. My bf likes to use it with me. He gets pretty excited ...

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9/30/08 5:09 P

It's not cheating in the least bit! My husband bought mine for me. Lets just say I'm a little more "active" then he is. it def doesn't satisfy me more than him, but when he's at work it's a good side toy. but like some of the other ladies have said, he need's to be comfortable with it.

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9/20/08 7:19 P

I don't think it is cheating either. Its not like the real thing but it can satisfy you when you can't have the real thing.

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9/17/08 4:12 P

We use it together. And there are times when you just want it, and he's not around. Just like guys when the whack off,lol. I wouldn't consider that cheating.

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9/17/08 10:44 A

It's not cheating b/c if it was (not that I do it however! LOL), then when men masturbate THEY would be cheating! HOWEVER if your partner is hurt by your need/want for it, then maybe for his sake find alternate methods???

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9/16/08 4:51 P

I agree with Babygirl. I don't think it is cheating either and use it together sometimes so your DH can see what really turns you on etc.

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9/16/08 8:56 A

I wouldnt say it is cheating at all. I would have to suggest that you have your DH or SO use it when u are together too. Im a Military wife and it keeps me company at times when DH is away for long periods of time. I would make sure your spouse is ok with it too though. I mean they can please themselves too and do it far more than we would ever imagine......

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9/15/08 11:17 P

I wouldnt say it was cheating. But maybe cause of it, your not satisfied by the real thing.

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9/15/08 7:05 P

i don't think it's cheating. if you get more pleasure from it, maybe you're not really satisfied & it keeps you from cheating.

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9/15/08 6:53 P

if u get more pleasure out of dat than ur SO????????????/


not my experience just curious