We started giving Ricky rice cereal, then switched to oatmeal since everyone kept saying the rice constipates them. Ricky only goes every other day anyway. Originally, we were giving it to him in his bottle, but it was too thick and he didn't barely eat any, so we bought a bowl and spoon. He tries to suck if off the spoon, but he's taking it okay. I think it will take some practice before he gets it down. So far, he's at about 1tbs mixed with formula in a bowl and followed by a 4- 5oz of formula in a bottle.
We put up all of his 3 month clothes up the other day and I got a little sad putting them away. Now he's in 3-6 or 6 month clothes. He'll probably only be able to wear the 3-6 month clothes for another couple of weeks.
We went to Sam's Club to see if we could get his diapers, wipes, and formula in bulk cheaper then we do buying it every week. We buy generic anyway, but by our calculations we'll save close to $100/month, which is helpful especially with Jason being the only one making money.
Ricky gets up 6-7am. He takes a half hour nap within two hours of him waking up. Then, he takes an afternoon nap around noon for two-three hours in his swing. He'd probably sleep longer if I didn't wake him up. I let him sleep through one time to see how long he'd sleep and he slept five hours, which is way too long for a nap. Then, he's been taking an evening nap from 7:30-9:30pm and we keep him up for a half an hour and then feed, change, and burp him and put him down for the night at 10pm. Jason said last night, he let him sleep through his evening nap to see how long he'd sleep and he slept straight through until 2am, which is what time he wakes up after we put him down at 10pm. He slept until 7:15am today, so we'll probably just start putting him to bed for the night by 8pm and let him wake himself up since Jason is still up until 3am.
4.7.2013
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Really, Ricky is 11 1/2 weeks, but close enough.
He's been holding his head up and smiling since 2-weeks
rolled over for the first time at 1 month and has been doing it at least 1x/time during tummy time since 10 weeks
started cooing at 5 weeks
laughing at 7 weeks
teething at 11 weeks
3 months clothes are getting really snug on him, but I guess 3-6 months are a little longer, so they fit OK.
Jason is really good at getting him to crack up. I can do the same thing he does and all I get is a coo, smile, or him mimicking my expression.
Sleeping patterns have been much better recently. Probably because Jason and I actually worked out a sleeping schedule, so we both get 8 hours instead of broken sleep. I go to bed at 10pm and sleep until Ricky gets up, which varies from 6-8am. Then, Jason goes to bed b/w 2-3, so he can get him for the middle of the night feeding. Yes, he's still waking up for it. Jason has been putting Ricky to bed at 11pm with a late nap from 8-9:30pm, but last night I kept Ricky awake until I went to bed and then had Jason put the baby down. He slept four hours both times before getting up, which is average for his age and then got up at 6am when he went down at 10pm (with no late evening nap).
He takes three naps... 1 hour nap about two hours after he wakes up. Then he takes a 3 hour nap in the afternoon and a 2 hour nap in the evening. I think if we cut down on his nap time (the amount of time he's sleeping), then maybe he'll sleep more at night because babies his age only sleep about 15 hours total. Hopefully, he sleeps through the night by the time Jason goes to work. From what I've read, babies should be able to sleep through the night by the time they are four-six months old. He seems to like to sleep since his naps are pretty long.
I weighed and measured him at basically 11 weeks and he was 14lbs and 25in. He won't go to the doctors again until he's four months (really 4 1/2 months). I can't wait until he's able to sit without support and when we start giving him food. I told Jason I don't want him to taste cake until he's 1 year old so he's reaction is authentic.
As for me... I've been doing pretty good at the gym 4x/weeks for 1 1/2-2 hours/each. I would like to get up to 5x/2 hours a time, but having a baby it's hard to get in the time I do. I started my period three weeks after the last one (and that one was eight weeks after I had Ricky) and it only lasted one day... I guess it'll take a while for my body to regulate. I got out my pre-pregnancy clothes today since it's basically been 3-months and honestly I've had some mixed in, but I got out and washed all of them today.... BIG mistake. I'm down to my pre-pregnancy weight, but just wider and so my most of my pants don't fit right. Okay, so I won't be too on myself since I was still trying to get away with wearing Junior clothes at 28 years old, but geesh. Babies are a blessing, but they totally wreck your body. I hope I'm able to at least re-shape my body through working out. I guess I should do better with what I eat with one cheat day- of course! I probably won't be able to start a diet/change of lifestyle hardcore until April since we're going out of town Easter weekend, hence eating out all weekend. This is only my fourth week working out, but I really hope I see some results by June (that'll be 3 months working out and Ricky will be 5 months by then).
If it wasn't for my age (if I had more fertile years), I'd space kids out further, so I'd have time to recuperate and get through the exhausting newborn stage. However, since I really don't want to have kids past 34 that would give me a three year age gap between kids (plus, leave the option open if I did want a third). The more kids you have and the younger they are is exhausting beyond what I can imagine, but it'll be worth it once they're all in school.
3.20.2013
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Ricky had his 2-month check-up today, which also meant three shots, poor guy! He had two shots at his one-month appointment.
At one-month he was 11lbs 10oz and 22 1/2 in.
At two-months he was 12lbs 14oz and 23 3/4 in.
He's "talking"- cooing all the time now and he makes a howling sound and another sound that I would describe as the sound you hear on a TV channel you can't get good reception on, like static.
He started laughing at 7 weeks and I also cut his nails for the first time at 7 weeks.
He's been in size 2 diapers (12-18lbs) for the past week and 3 month clothes are snug on him (and don't fit lengthwise).
3.4.2013
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I can't believe my son is already a month old (and on my MIL b-day)! I'm happy to see him grow/change everyday, but I want to keep him small.
Ricky rolled over for the first time on Friday, January 25, which is the same day he started taking 4oz. He was just taking 3oz a week ago, so I guess he's going through another growth spurt. He slept six hours (from midnight until 6m) on Saturday, January 26 and five hours (12am-5am) on Sunday, January 27. I hope that pattern continues because I can feed him at that time and then go to the gym when I put him back down and still be back before DH gets up.
He's doing so well in his swing now. We can get up to 2-hours in it. He still doesn't like his crib, pack and play, or bath time. Although, we just got the pack and play out today and we tried to transition him in it when he fell asleep during the day, but he wakes up after 20 minutes and cries. That's how he was in his swing too, so hopefully within the week he'll get used to it (it does have a basinet in it) and we're hoping if he takes to it, then it'll be an easier transition to his crib.
During bath time today, he discovered his thumb and while it calmed it down immediately, we both decided we don't want him to start that habit, so maybe I'll try to take his paci next time.
1.28.2013
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I can't believe my baby is already three weeks old/ going on four weeks on MIL's bday (Sunday).
Ricky started eating 3oz on Thursday, January 17 (2 weeks 4 days old) and also officially outgrew his newborn clothes the same day (length wise). I can see changes in him daily- he's filling out and looking more like a baby vs. newborn.
He's holding his head up somewhat already and works on turning it side to side during tummy time. He only tolerates tummy time for about 5 minutes though.
He's starting to like his swing more, but probably because we put him in it more. We've been trying to let him nap in his crib during to the day so he can get used to it and do better at night, but we haven't been consistent about it.
He's still getting up every 2-3 hours during the day and 3-4 hours at night, but he's staying awake more during the day. The past couple of days, he's been eating 3-oz every 2 hours. I think it's because he's having a growth spurt.
Ricky has been extra fussy for us the past couple of days, too. I passed the baby off to DH at 10pm because I had a really bad headache all day and wanted to relax/lay down and he fussed for 2 hours while DH tried to put him down last night. DH came to bed and once again said, "We're down, I hope you're happy, enjoy him, we're not having anymore." I know he's not cut out for the newborn phase and will enjoy him more once he's walking/talking, so by then I can talk him into another and I can take the baby and he take Ricky (when he's 3).
We're still trying to take him out every other day (if only for our sanity), but it's a whole process getting him ready/ourselves ready and the settled once we're inside. We always change our outside clothes to house clothes when we come home and do the same for the baby and wipe him down with a baby wipe to try to get rid of any germs. But then he also needs a diaper and bottle- so it's at least a half hour process just coming in the house.
Today, I bought some bras (in my pre-pregnancy size) with Kohl's Cash and they're a little snug, so hopefully when I loose more weight from working out (once I get the "all clear" at my post partum check-up), they'll fit better.
Also, I got a bigger diaper bag (since the one I was using is the one the hospital gave us) and it matches my carseat/stroller, so I am so excited! Plus, since everything is blue and the argyle print, DH can carry it as well.
Now, the only baby gear we have to get is 1) carrier 2)playmat (we're making do with blanket and still may not get) 3)highchair (eventually when he needs it) 4)jumperoo (at 4 months).
1.23.2013
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Ricky is 13 days old today and his umbilical cord fell off! He's growing like a weed. He eats every 2-3 hours during the day and every 3-4 hours at night. He went from breastmilk to Similac and now to Walmart Brand formula, which his system doesn't seem to agree with. He spits up more easily now, is more gassy, doesn't poo as frequently and just generally seems uncomfortable. Now, we're going to try gas drops and switch to the sensitive/lactose free formula and see if that helps- poor baby!
We went to my aunt Sherri's house last night and did fairly well- a little fussy though. We went to lunch with my mom, brother and nephew today and I fed, changed and burped him before we left, but then he spit up a lot just before we left. He feel asleep on the car ride and then stayed that way while we were at lunch.
We have to meet up with Jason's cousin in the next few days to give her back her maternity clothes since her sister is in her 2nd trimester now and will need them. Then, we're going to meet up with Jason's other cousin on Tuesday, so they can see the baby. I have to go to my job by Friday to go over some things and so they can see the baby- so all in all, a very busy week.
I hope Ricky doesn't continue to be as fussy- if he's fed, changed and burped (of course) because Jason is already burnt out and keeps saying this is it or no more.
1.12.2013
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When I came home from the hospital- I weighed myself and I lost 10lbs
At 11 days post pregnancy- I lost 25lbs. I still have 10lbs to get down to my pre-pregnancy weight, which isn't too bad. I have a long way to go to get down to my goal weight (my high school weight at least 140). I'm going to give myself until June to lose the weight and It'll help too when I'm able to start working out. I really have to work on my stomach too because the skin is so loose now.
1.10.2013
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We had our first doctors appointment with the pediatrician today and Ricky was so well behaved- surprisingly. He cries when he doesn't have clothes on, but not at the doctors today, he cooed and was being so cute. Doctor said he's average weight (back up to his birth weight), average head circumference and a little above average for his length at 21" (he grew 1/4" in 9 days)! He goes back in one month to have shots- poor baby, I'm sure he won't be so happy then. Jason and I are so happy/proud about how healthy he is!
1.8.2013
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Now that our baby is nine days old, the newborn phase is really wearing on both of us, especially since we're both home to deal with it. While, it's nice to tag team, DH says he's not doing this again.
After two losses and having such a by the book pregnancy, uncomplicated labor/delivery, and healthy baby, I feel truly blessed. However, I always saw myself with four kids, but DH always wanted two, so we settled on three. After experiencing pregnancy and to labor/delivery with a healthy baby, I don't think I can do it more than one more time. I definitely would like to have two and I would feel more fulfilled as my new role as a stay at home mom. I don't even want another one for three-four years because this newborn phase is really tough and I can't see having them so close together. At least by then Ricky will be in preschool I can have time with the baby without feeling like I'm not giving Ricky enough attention.
Ricky has been awake since 4am and he been up on and off throughout the day. We tried to keep him awake most of today so he sleeps better tonight- hopefully that helps. I think if he continues to be fussy (while normal) it will be really hard to convince DH to have another one. He's an only child anyway, so he's content with it just being the three of us.
I cried a lot today when he told me he was done because I'm the only who's giving up my career *my choice* to do the "mom" thing, so I am going be with any kid(s) we have 75% more of the time then DH and I am the one who has to put a tole on my body with pregnancy and labor/delivery, so I should get to decide (even if DH does provide the financial support). I don't know maybe it's selfish on my part, but DH and I have been together for 12 years and married for 3 (four this year) and we have had plenty of conversations about the number of children, but now that we're going through it, he's changed his mind. Hopefully, after the newborn stage DH will see the positives of child rearing and change his mind again. He said we can discuss it when the time comes- I just hope he comes around to my side! I maybe a littlie spoiled too though since DH worked from home this pregnancy, he was able to go to all my doctors appointments and be home with me while I am on maternity leave to help out. I know the next pregnancy (hopefully, there will be a next) will be completely different as it will be with two kids since DH won't be home to help.
We already decided we're going to use condoms now as our contraceptive, I definitely don't want to get pregnant again anytime soon, but I am a little disappointed by that since we've never used them before, but I also don't want to use birth control, so...
1.8.2013
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I fed the baby and then pumped, but he got really fussy, so I had to stop pumping to soothe him. All he wanted is to be held, which it was impossible to pump with me holding him. He comes first! While, I wanted to be able to provide the best nourishment for him, his contentment is more important to me. I had 12oz of breastmilk pumped from yesterday, so we continued to feed him that the rest of the night and began formula this morning. I started crying while holding him yesterday out of guilt of deciding to give up pumping/breastfeeding, but it makes it more convenient for DH and I and takes away a lot of stress of pumping b/w feedings and how to feed in public. All in all, I'm comfortable with my decision. But, it to looks like I'm going to have to work twice as hard to loose the 20lbs of baby weight (plus some since I want to try to get down to my highschool weight). I can start working out mid February/early March and I'm giving myself a good six months to get down to my ideal size.
1.7.2013
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I'm down 16lbs from the 35lb weight gain. I hope I can lose most of the baby weight by my postpartum check up, which may be a pipe dream, but with pumping hopefully it'll help. My stomach went down significantly- that was the only area I gained weight in, but my stomach is really squishy. The stretch marks aren't as bad now that my stomach is not so stretched. I'm wearing a girdle, so hopefully that helps pull things in better until I can start working out. My boobs grew 3 cup sizes during pregnancy and I can't even imagine what size they are now. I'm wearing a nursing sports bra, but I need to get at least two good nursing bras, particularly the kind with the flaps to help hold my pump in place so I don't feel so confined while pumping. I do have the heavy duty Medela pump though. I tried nursing the first three days, but Ricky didn't latch well, so I had to switch to pumping every 2 hours, then feed him from a bottle with breastmilk. I also had to supplement formula at night 1) so I get more rest 2)so DH can help feed while he's home with him for the next six weeks 3) to make sure I get a good supply of milk to keep up with what he's eating. Ideally, I'd like to feed from my breast, but with poor latch pumping works for now and at least I know exactly what he's getting. I may try to get some breast shields too and see if that helps. Pain wise, it's getting more tolerable each day. I only seem to bleed when I need to pump/just after or when I'm walking around a lot (ex: cleaning and sterilizing bottles).
I'm nervous that all of my efforts to provide better nourishment for my baby will wear on me, especially when DH goes back to work and I'm doing all the day and night feedings with him only being able to help during the evening. On top of trying to pump after each feed. Then, if I do decide to switch to just formula (for convenience), how I go about letting my milk dry up.
Ricky seems to sleep a lot! I know babies do in general, but he either gets up or we wake him up every three hours and after he eats 1oz, we change his diaper and re-swaddle him, burp him, then lay him back down to feed him another 1-2oz. He then goes right back to sleep for the most part. During the day today he was up for about an hour after we fed him, then at another day feeding up about 1/2 hour, the only way I got him to calm down/go back to sleep was hold him, which I didn't mind- it's the middle of the night when it gets exhausting.
Jason has been a huge help! We weren't exactly ready when Ricky decided to make his arrival, so it's been an adjustment to say the least. He's been doing the mountain of laundry we had piled up since before we had him and I'm working on folding it and putting it away. Then, we still have baby gear to put together/put away- everything is kind of out of sorts until we figure out where to put everything.
The baby and I went to my dad's house yesterday, so everyone could see the baby and it took an extra 1 1/2 hours to get myself and him ready. I knew it would take extra time, but hopefully we can cut that down some. I don't plan to take too many trips from the house with him by myself unless necessary. All in all, I feel pretty good about they way things are going, just exhausted- hopefully he starts sleeping more through the night and just eating more at each feeding in the next few weeks.
1.6.2013
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For the first three days, I fed Ricky directly from my breast. But called the doctor when I felt he wasn't making enough dirty diapers (pee/poo), so they suggested pumping and supplementing with formula. I am pumping every 2 hours and feeding the baby 2 1/2-3 hours, but he eats 2-3oz at a time and I am only pumping 2oz at a time. I am so worried that I won't have enough production to feed him. Not to mention the whole ordeal of trying to feed him in public... do I bring a bottle of breastmilk? Do I try to pump, and if so, how do I manage in public? Do I feed directly from my breasts (which could take up to an hour)? Do I pack a bottle of formula and not worry about the other scenarios?
Other more experienced breastfeeding moms say not to introduce a bottle, formula, or paci to avoid nipple confusion and while I understand and appreciate the advice all of them have worked for us thus far.
I've been still trying to feed from my breast (b/c it seems the easiest way to feed while out), but he still seems hungry and I end up giving him bottled breastmilk anyway. The newborn phase is exhausting in general, but then it just seems like I added another step by breastfeeding and pumping. I'm trying to enjoy this time because I know it passes quickly, but it's tiring to say the least. I'm going to try to stick with what I'm doing unless it seems not to be working. Otherwise, I'll switch to formula. It's more important during the night when we're the most tired, but I'll give it another day (up to a week since he'll be week old tomorrow).
I feel so guilty, too because I know it's best and I'm trying to do what convenient for me, but I don't function well on little to no sleep, which I feel will affect my parenting ability to get everything else done that needs to be done.
1.5.2013
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"hang in there lady! It get easier- promise! Hugs from another newbie breastfeeding momma" -- HC2007
It's only day five and everything is going well. I couldn't do what I'm doing without the help/support from Jason. I'm so happy/blessed that he's able to be home with me while I am on maternity leave. I don't plan to go back to work- there's no way I could and still do each job to my full capacity. We are feeding every 3 hours. We feed him 1oz, then change him and swaddle him, then feed him another 1oz. He's then pretty much out.Then, I pump for the next 20-30 minutes and sterilize. He gets really fussy in the middle of the night, like last night, he cried for a couple of hours. I tried feeding, changing, swaddling, walking around, rocking, etc. Finally after feeding him another 1oz, he went back to sleep. It was rough to say the least. I'm getting 1 1/2-2 hours of sleep at a time b/w feedings/pumping/changing/sterilizing, etc. Jason's getting 2-2 1/2 hours at a time. We can get by during the day, but at night it gets rough. This is only the 2nd of 5 days he's done that (the first day being when he was first born and then last night at four days). Hopefully, we can get this more into a routine- even though I know babies have their own schedule. Jason and I both got pooped on (different times) while changing him, apparently mid poop. Obviously, feeding from a bottle (so we know how much he's getting) and then pumping works while I'm at home, but I don't know how I'll handle it when we're out (as long as we don't go out more than 2-3 hours at a time)- unless I feed him from my breast while we're out. My goal is to breastfeed at least six months- I hope I can stick to it, especially since I didn't stick to my natural birth plan (but I couldn't have done it otherwise). I lost 15 lbs from birth and my stomach is pretty much flat- just saggy, so I'm wearing a girdle, hopefully that helps. Once I am clear to start working out, I guess I'll be doing lots of sit-ups. My stretch marks aren't nearly as bad now that my stomach isn't so stretched.
During labor, I told Jason I didn't know why people would go through that kind of pain to have kids. I don't think I was extra emotional/complained (other than that comment). Jason took on his role really well and sat back (since there was nothing he could do), stayed awake with me, feed me ice-chips, squeezed my hand when I needed him to, and he held his breath and pushed with me when I did (which was too funny). He basically took his cues from me. I was numb from the epidural so I couldn't feel the 2 minute contractions when it was time to push (I had to push four times between contractions since they were so long). I couldn't even feel if I was pushing correctly, but apparently I was since it only took 35 min. After experiencing labor/delivery and now recovery, I told Jason I definitely want another kid (b/c I can't imagine only having one and I want Ricky to have a sibling), but I don't think I could experience pregnancy and labor/delivery more than one more time and that's 2-3 years from now. My birth experience was not at all what I envisioned, but I couldn't imagine it being any other way. I'm surprised myself that I only want one more, but labor/delivery does so much to your body and just can't see doing that to myself more than one more time. With Ricky crying in the middle of the night the way he is, it will take a lot of convincing on my part to have another one. Plus, by the time we do I'd have to do it with a newborn and 3-4 year old by myself since Jason would be working. I hope he can only work part-time or find something from home, but that sounds like a pipe dream (in my ideal world) at this point. I am glad/blessed that he got to experience this pregnancy, labor/delivery, and maternity leave with me since it was our first and we're both so new at all of this.
1.4.2013
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Saturday, December 30 started off like any other day. We slept in. I let Jason sleep until he woke up, which ended up being until 11:30. He really needed the sleep though with the running around he had been doing between the bedroom remodel and getting the baby's stuff together. We both relaxed around the house all day. He chilled out in bed until 4pm and then cleaned the car out and put the seat covers and mats in for three hours. He got back around 7:30pm. I stayed home and watched "Super Nanny." We ate some fried bologna sandwiches and ice cream with sprinkles and watched a TV show, called "Moon Shiners." I started having minor back aches/discomfort and kept having to use the bathroom. When I went to the bathroom at 10:30pm, I noticed some blood. Then I started having cramps in my back and pelvis. I kept having pee with little coming out and more blood. Then I realized I was loosing my mucus plug. Within an hour, the cramps starting getting worse and I started having diarrhea. I realized I was probably in labor. The contractions kept coming about 10 minutes apart and lasting 30 seconds. Jason then started scrambling to get last minutes things done- laundry, finish packing the hospital bag, putting the bouncy seat together, etc. We both took at showers a 3am and kept timing the contractions. We called our OB (the on call one since it was the middle of the night), which happened to be one of my favorites: Dr. Leques (Lex). With contractions coming 3-5 minutes apart and lasting 30 seconds, she told us to head to the hospital. We arrived around 3:30am and when they checked me, I was only 1cm dilated and 70% thin, which is what I had been at my last appt (6 days ago). The kept monitoring contractions until 6am and they sent me home since I was only in early labor and that could take a few hours to several days. Pain wise, it was tolerable, but the worst period cramps I have ever experienced. The back ones were the worse, but I was able to breathe through them. They sent me home with a 5mg Vicodin to try to get some rest. Jason slept from 7-10:30 am. I slept in 2-5 minute intervals (until I got a contraction). They kept getting stronger and longer. I kept having to use the bathroom (I had diarrhea four times since 10:30 the night before), tried walking them off, rubing them, taking a shower, etc. Jason got out of bed and noticed that the pain and significantly increased. I couldn't even stand and was in tears, so we headed back to the hospital at 11am. Walking from the parking lot to the hospital, I had five very painful/close contractions. Jason put me in a wheel chair as soon as we got the hospital. I was admitted at 5cm dilated 100% thin. By 1pm, I was 7 cm dilated and finally received the epidural (my life savor). I couldn't have labored without it the last few hours. I did labor 14 1/2 hours without it. At 2pm, they broke my water, which had meconium in it. Some of my water broke when I ended up puking like five times (the previous nights meal, some of it got on me) just before they broke my water. Then I slept for two hours until 4pm. They told me I was 10 cm at that time and I was going to start pushing around 5pm. I couldn't feel anything below my waist. Well, my feet just felt like they were tingly from being asleep, so I could move those. I was worried I wouldn't be able to feel enough to push, but decided to try to push anyway. I started pushing around 5:17pm (19 hour labor). With each contraction lasting 2 minutes my nurse had my push four times between contractions. After 35 minutes of pushing (according to the nurse and doctor, I was really good at pushing since first time moms usually push 1-2 hours), Richard Golden Messer was born at 5:52pm on Sunday, December 30. He weighed 8lbs 2oz and was 20 3/4" long. I ended up tearing both sides of my labia and had to have stitches. They placed him on my chest immediately following his birth. I was so overwhelmed with emotions. They waited about 2 minutes (until the cord stopped pulsating per my request) and DH cut the cord! He actually watched him coming out too, which I was surprised about because he was so against it when we discussed it. The doctor pushed/massaged my stomach to help deliver the placenta. His apgar score was 9 both times.he passed his hearing screening and is healthy/happy baby. We are truly blessed!
1.3.2013
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7 days until my due date and I am writing this at 4am because I've been up for an hour and a half with heart burn, acid reflux, and rib pain on both sides. Almost over...
I've had a by the book pregnancy, so even with all the symptoms and discomforts, I feel pretty good about how it's went.
I've been tired the whole pregnancy, the worst was the first few weeks of first trimester and the last few weeks of third trimester.
I've had to pee in the middle of the night again the first few weeks of first trimester and the last few weeks of third trimester.
I had morning sickness/nausea from 3 weeks to 16 weeks and even now some food still churn my stomach.
I've been constipated most of my pregnancy, but the last couple of weeks (37 weeks), I've been having looser bowels/going more frequently, which is what I assume caused my hemorrhoids too.
I've had heartburn and acid reflux since 16+ weeks about everyday.
My boobs went from a d-cup to a f-cup and my milk hasn't even come in yet!
I got two stretch marks at 32 weeks, another two at 33 weeks, and they've been coming in every since- I thought I escaped it, but nope!
I developed hemorrhoids at 37 weeks and apparently you get more from pushing the baby out.
I've had really bad pelvic pressure from him sitting so low for a while starting at 30+ weeks, but I've been getting period like cramps for the past week (38 weeks), which was apparently from him moving further down in my pelvis and going from 0-70% effaced in four days. At this point, it's uncomfortable to lay in either side because he's all over and it hurts my ribs, it hurts to sit straight up, and it's uncomfortable to walk, but I keep doing it hoping he'll come sooner than later!
I'm really hoping the full moon tomorrow- December 28 bring on my labor. I'm so uncomfortable. Jason said if I haven't had him by Monday, December 31, then we can try natural techniques to help jump start labor (hopefully or hopefully he's here by then). My next appointment isn't until my due date, January 3.
I can't wait to have him home and in my arms. I am dreading delivery- not so much labor even though it's really painful. I still haven't decided on the epidural even though everyone says I need to get it. I want to try to walk, rock on the birthing ball, and I would love to give birth either on my hands and knees or a squatting position that helps with gravity. I did read on our hospitals website that you can get a block just in the vagina to help numb the pain that area during delivery and I may go that option. I don't want to be restricted from movement before, during, and after delivery because of the epidural. I'm also going to try nursing right away to help deliver the placenta. I just hope everything goes somewhat the way I envision it. I would also like to have time after the delivery for the first hour or so for Jason and I to bond with the baby, try nursing, and have time to clean up before we have visitors. In the end, all that matters is having a healthy baby.
12.27.2012
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I had a doctors appt today and told my doctor since my last appt, which was just last Thursday, I've been having a lot of pressure (felt like period like cramps). Well apparently, the baby is really low in my pelvis and I am now 70% effaced (thin), but still only 1cm dilated. Jason's working in the bedroom again today and washing up the baby clothes, too. We have the bedding now, so that'll get washed as well. We also bought the cubby storage unit that we're going to keep the baby's clothes in and the carseat cover. I feel pretty good about what work has been done, what has been bought, etc. We shouldn't need to buy anything for the baby (other than diapers) for a while.
We do still need the boppy, breast milk storage (bottles or bags), a couple more nursing bras and then post postpartum stuff. The only thing we need in the bedroom now is curtains, which is an easy purchase and the dresser that we should be able to buy this weekend if the baby hasn't come yet.
Jason has to install the carseat either tomorrow or the following day, so I'm feeling pretty good. We do still have to pack the hospital bag, but that should get done in the next couple of days, too. I'm glad I had the two weeks off before my due date to finish getting things in order. I've been extra tired lately as well even though Jason's been the one doing the work. I guess it's nice to relax a little, too before the baby comes since I've been working my butt off at work up to this point, plus I can't really help him do the things that still need to be done.
12.24.2012
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I feel like I've been pregnant forever, but I'm sure it's because I got pregnant back to back to back (with this one being successful after two miscarriages). I feel blessed that I've had a by the book pregnancy. I mean, literally every symptom you can think of I've had it! Ricky is healthy, active, and still measuring right on.
I have everything officially ready for school, so he's more than welcome to come anytime now. Our room is getting there, but even that will be finished this time next week and that includes moving our furniture back in there and having all the baby's stuff washed and put away. I feel like we've procrastinated a lot, but it takes time, money, and energy to do everything on top of doing our normal daily stuff.
It's crazy to think that one week from today I will no longer be a teacher, but I'm giving up my career for my child, so I can be home with him and not a lot of people have that opportunity. I am going to nurse and I really just don't want to miss anything because you can't get the time back, but I can go back into teacher whenever.
I had a doctors appointment today and my cervix is starting to thin-yay! He also said I am 1/2 a centimeter dilated, so I guess my body is getting ready. I'm going to start walking a lot next week to get things moving along. Jason really wants me not to because he feels like he's not ready and wants a 2013 baby (Ricky's due Jan 3), but I'm just going to help speed up the process a little ;) We had mass at school today and he always moves a lot when I sing or talk a lot I guess in response to my voice. He also had the hiccups, which was funny because I had my hands folded on my belly and they kept jumping since my stomach was jumping from him having the hiccups.
12.13.2012
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31 Days until my due date! We took maternity photos over the weekend and they turned out beautiful. I am really happy with the results. It was a 3 hour process between waiting to be called back, taking the photos, and waiting for them to be printed. We went in with a budget in mind and went over that because we wanted the CD with all the photos. I went to the doctors today and this week I'll be 36 weeks, but not until Thursday. I figured they'd start checking me for dilation and effacement, but they said they'll do that next week since I'm not quite 36 weeks. Ricky has been head down since 32 weeks, so the movement I've been feeling is his butt, lol. The doctor said he needs to stretch just like anyone else.
I have all my files organized for my maternity leave and lesson plans about finished. I just have to type up daily lessons to put in the files. Hopefully is organized and easy to follow. I tried to make it as easy for the sub as possible, especially if I don't come back after leave, which is the way it's looking. I planned spelling out the rest of the year, homework, and family projects... that way it's consistent for the rest of the year.
The doctor debunked all the old wives tales, even the full moon on December 28 about whether or not you'll go early, but I still think I will. We just need to get through the next two weeks to 38 weeks, so that gives me time to finish typing my lessons, shopping for what we still need, and finishing up the room- last minute, I know, but budget dictates what we were able to do. We also decided we're going to do a build a bear monkey (to go along with our monkey theme) and probably put karate clothes on him.
12.3.2012
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I am officially 34 weeks today, so 6 weeks left (42 days)! I am up 28lbs, but I am sure after all this good food cooking it'll change. We had a doctors appointment this week, but it was rushed.... we waited 1 1/2 hour (s), he did the heart rate- didn't tell me what it was and didn't measure my stomach. My next appointment is on December 3- the week I'll be 36 weeks and I start going weekly after that. It's really go time now because then they'll start checking for dilation and effacement.
I've been sick with a cold for the past week, but at least I'm off work, so I can rest. I'm going to work on my lesson plans tomorrow and hopefully I get a lot finished, so I can start making my copies. I only have 3 1/2 weeks when I go back, so I really need to get it done.
I also saw a note that went home to all the kids something about buying baby gifts and being the cafeteria at 1:30, so I'm assuming my class is throwing me a baby shower. I know the teachers threw the kindergarten teacher a baby shower last year, so I'm not sure if this is all school thing or just my class. We still have to get things for the baby, so every little bit will help. Hopefully, we can finish buying paint and baisc things to finish the bedroom soon! Our maternity photos are next Saturday. And... I officially have stretch marks... oh well.
I have a lot of things to be thankful for everyday of the year not just the one day... I am thankful for a roof over my head, clothes on my body, food in my belly, my car, my career, my cats, my family (the one I was born into and the one I married into), my amazing husband/best friend, and this beautiful baby boy that will be here in 42 days!
11.22.2012
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Our baby shower was a week ago (tomorrow). We had a nice crowd and got a lot of good stuff. We have to take the duplicates back, but that'll go toward other baby stuff we need. We still need:
* Travel system (stroller w/carseat)
* crib (w/mattress) and bedding
* carrier
*diaper genie
* car seat cover
* playmat
*high chair (we'll get when he needs it)
* mobile
* diaper bag
*** More clothes, diapers, bath stuff (lotion, oil, shampoo) as we need it***
We finished our last parenting class on Thursday and received the $150 toward our crib, so that'll be nice. We're not going to be able to buy any baby stuff until mid-December because we're still getting our room ready and with black Friday sales we just can't pass up.
We did the 3d ultrasound for our 3 year anniversary (11 1/2 years total) on Wednesday. I loved getting to see how big he is. I may have to rethink the natural labor plan though. They said my fluid level was on the lower side of normal 11.96 (normal is 5-25) and he was really squished with little room to move. I had a doctors apt today and she scheduled me for an ultrasound to check on my levels for next Friday the 16th. At least we'll get a better idea of how big he is too! My next apt after that is Nov 20.
I got my first two stretch marks today (that I noticed) on my belly... very small, very light, and not very deep. I can deal with that as long as it doesn't get too much worse.
I brought some books home to start my lesson plans for Jan- Feb while I'm on leave. DH decided he's going to get a job, so I have two options 1)stay home or 2)pay someone to watch our son just so I can finish out the year...
We're going to call next week to book our maternity photos for December 1.
11.9.2012
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I cannot get enough sleep lately. Friday, I went to lunch with a friend. As soon as I got in DH and I took a 3-hour nap and still went to bed at normal time. I ended up sleeping 11 hours.. not counting the nap.
Then, yesterday we went to our cousins 2nd birthday party and DH and our cousins were planning to do a hay ride/corn maze (instead of a haunted house, so I could be included). I was so tired I had to have DH drop me off and then they ended up going to a haunted house instead. I ended up sleeping 12 hours. I don't know why I'm so tired. I'm normally this tired after working all day (and working hard since I have to work ahead for when I'm on leave).
DH and I are still deciding who's going to stay home. We're going to use January as a trial for me to see if I can do it full time. Otherwise, he'll be home (while still working from home). I know it's going to be hard to leave my child and I will miss him, but he'll be with his father, so it won't be as hard. I would like to finish out the school year with my students and work another year, so I can save for a car for my 30th birthday. We need one anyway and I don't know how we'd be able to get one any other way. I think having 5 years vs. 4 years on a resume would sound better, too. Especially if I'm going to be home for just as long with our other kid(s). Still deciding if two or three is our limit and the age between the children. Due to our age, we would like to have them closer together 1 1/2-2 years and if we have a third then a gap of 3 years. So excited to start the next chapter of our lives.
10.21.2012
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I had a dream that I was visiting my best friend from childhood about two months after I had the baby. Her dad was sitting in the recliner with his feet propped up and he wanted to hold him. He lay the baby on his legs and was baby talking to him/playing with him. Ricky liked it at first, but then got a little fussy. So I picked him up and lay him on my shoulder and pat his back/butt to soothe him. It was the most amazing feeling! I woke up to me patting the air, but that was my first real mommy dream.
I've had dreams where I've already had kids and we were doing normal family stuff, but this was me in mommy mode and I loved it. I can't wait to meet this little guy and be the best mommy I can be for him. It's such an amazing feeling to feel/see him move on the outside. And.. to know he's going to be here in a matter of weeks. I'm in the process of preparing my body for his birth. I have my ideal situation in my head and that's what I am going to stick to.
10.15.2012
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As soon as I hit 28 weeks/3rd trimester it became real that baby will be here in a very short amount of time. I feel like there's still so much to do.
We're in the middle of remodeling our bedroom and trying to have that finished by our shower, but I'd say it'll probably be a month from now (because of money).
We still need to buy the travel system and breast pump and not to mention anything else we still need after our shower. I have to call about STD to find out when it begins since I have to use my personal time first- I'd rather it not overlap, so I can actually get 8 weeks vs. 6 weeks. We have to book our maternity photo shoot for sometime in December.
Then, as far as school is concerned, I need to plan for November/December and then begin lesson plans for Jan-Feb and have those all finished (and copied) by Thanksgiving break just in case I go early.
We have to get the muffler fixed on the car and minor repairs. I also want to get an automatic car starter installed before winter hits.
We're trying to save to buy a TV during Black Friday.
Oh and our furnace went out, so that has to be replaced.
I need to make a birth plan, pack bag, and plan going home attire for me and the baby.
So mostly, this has to do with money, but I guess I need to keep in mind to budget and I can still get some things I need for the baby after he's here.
10.13.2012
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While at the book store I picked up Hynobirthing (mentioned in previous blog), Wicked (casual read), and the baby his first set of Disney board books. I couldn't resist. DH has been adamant about not buying anything until after our shower, so we know what we still need to get.
10.13.2012
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Now that I am 3rd trimester, I have really been thinking about my ideal birth situation. I picked up the book Hypnobirthing to look into natural (med free) birthing techniques. DH doesn't think I will be able to cope with the pain, but the book teaches you relaxation/visualization techniques to help take your mind off the pain. It's just like when you puke- if you tense up, it's so much worse then if you just relax your muscles.
I'm going to talk to OBGYN (once again a different doctor, but I have officially seen every doctor in the practice after the next apt) about laboring positions and my interests in going med free. I'd rather not labor on my back because I feel like it makes it longer- fighting against gravity. But I want to know what options are available to me: labor ball, birthing stool, etc.
Also, I'm going to look for natural childbirth classes (in particular Hypnobirthing classes if I can find one locally that doesn't cost too much). I found a website that 2 1/2 hour classes for five weeks, but I only have 11 1/2 weeks left and I don't know if I can talk DH into the classes because of time frame or money. But at least we have the book.
I'm also going to start (never too late, right?) pre-natal yoga to start stretching my muscles to help prepare my body for childbirth. Of course, and keeping up with kegal exercises.
10.13.2012
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At the reunion, there was definitely plenty of belly rubs. But, apparently I REALLY got a stomach over the past week b/c everyone has been commenting how huge I was. I had two cousins shake my belly to try to wake the baby up. Then an aunt who insisted on taking a bare belly photo and then commenting how huge I was. My MIL and husband even said once I hit six months it was like it came out over night.
I do feel huge, but at least it's all belly. And.. I am officially in the waddle stage. I don't think I'm doing too bad with my weight +17lbs from pre-preggo weight at 27 weeks. I had my GD test today and should be hearing about the results for that in the next two days. We also scheduled our next appt for Oct 25 at 30 weeks (to be on even numbers), so I can start going every two weeks. The baby's heartbeat was 156, but the doctor didn't measure my tummy today and really seemed to rush through my appt. We also booked the whopping cough vaccine for the next apt- apparently baby's aren't protected from that for the first two months. So getting it will help protect me and the baby. Jason's going to get it, too.
I know this month is going to fly with everything going on. We found out STD w/doctors say is only covering six weeks and my vacation time covers the other two. We're going to have to budget, so I can take off the extra four weeks- total of 12 and then come back after spring break.
10.3.2012
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"Sounds like things are going well! I wouldn't worry about the weight or the belly, you're doing GREAT. I work with so many women who have packed on way more than that and are only a few weeks ahead of us." -- NIRALEEP
We are attending MIL family reunion this weekend. I am so excited! This is the first time extended family has seen me pregnant and I am 26 weeks. This will also be our last trip down before we have the baby. Once he's here, we won't be able to make it back down until Feb-April. I know after traveling though, I'll be extra tired on Monday.
Tuesday, we're going to our cousins house to spend time with them (I'm making hamburgers). Wednesday is our monthly OB apt and our GD test. Thursday is of course, our third parenting class: Labor and Delivery I- natural method w/ a graphic video.
9.28.2012
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Katie and her mom offered to throw our shower. So, they're in charge of games and decorations and we're still covering food. We are so thankful for them stepping up though because it was stressful enough planning our own shower and they have a lot of cute ideas. We're not very picky and they sound way more detailed with the planning then we were ever going to be. We did try to offer to pay for the prizes, materials for games, and decorations, but they declined. So nice of them to do, especially since no one else offered. We're going to plan to try to make it up to them by treating them to dinner or something because it really is above and beyond. Plus, they already did us a big enough favor by booking the hall.
9.26.2012
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We registered at Target for our shower today. I went in with a list in hand, but we just walked up and down each aisle and went from there. I also added a couple of more things online when I got home because I didn't think of it in the store. We'll be making our own invitations and have those ready to be sent out in the next week to give people a month's notice- our shower is November 3.
We went with the Eddie Bauer theme for the stroller travel system, pack and play, and high chair- in blue. Then the bouncer crib bedding, and play mat is monkey theme.
I'm going to buy the breast pump b/c it's way more than I'd be comfortable with someone else paying. We're also going to buy the stroller travel system (to make sure we get the one we want, plus it's too expensive for someone to buy)- we didn't even add it to our registry. We received a 20% off coupon when registering to go towards our stroller. We'll also be buying the crib since our parenting class is giving us a $150 Walmart card towards the crib, so we'll only have to pay the other half.
9.22.2012
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DH and I are taking parenting classes for eight weeks.
1st class: Introductions/Nutrition
2nd class: baby basics (looking forward to this one)
3rd Class: Labor and Delivery
4th Class: Labor and Delivery pt. 2
5th Class: Feeding Options
6th Class: First Aid
7th Class: Budgeting/Infant Brain Development
8th (final) Class: Discipline/Pizza Party
The classes are offered for free and we get a $150 gift card to Walmart at the last class (if we attend at 7/8 classes) toward baby stuff! We had our first class tonight and it's supposed to last 1 1/2 hour(s) each class, but this one only lasted an hour, which was nice since it's later in the evening. I do find the information informative, plus you can't beat free stuff!
9.20.2012
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I felt the baby hiccuping the last week. Now, I actually saw my stomach move from the outside last night, so I out my hand there and felt him move. It was the coolest thing! Then, I had DH do the same thing and he felt it too. Although, he said he's not going to count it because he wasn't sure. That was definitely what that was though because I could feel him move from the inside in the same spot in he could from the outside. Of course, it would be while I was in bed reading right before I went to sleep.
9.20.2012
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"That's wonderful! congrats! I hope to feel/see it soon! " -- QUINTERO-MARTIN
Blah- so on top of having a cold for a week now, I also got a sour stomach after breakfast and threw it up. Throwing up is no fun at any time, but especially not at 6 months preggo. I was luckily able to hold down my dinner (salad), but it's still really grumbly.
It was nice to not have to run around too much this weekend and be able to relax- I needed it. But I could really use an extra day off... too bad I have to use my PTO for maternity leave. Hopefully I can take it easy at work tomorrow, so I can start feeling better. I hate being sick, especially when pregnant because it makes me worry about the baby. He's very active, so I'm sure everything is fine, but still.
9.16.2012
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I already have trouble sleeping through the night from the bigger belly and how low it sits, getting up 2x to pee, and now this cold.
I've had a cold for a week now! I wasn't taking anything the first couple of days, but then it wasn't getting better either, so DH called the doc and they recommended Sudafed. All that did was dry up my runny nose, but I still had a phlegmy cough, so he called back a couple of days later and they recommended Robotussin. Now, I am not taking the Sudafed, but he Robotussin. I hate/feel guilty taking any meds beyond vitamins during pregnancy, but I have to take care of myself for the baby. Of course, FIL and DH ended up catching the same cold, so we're all on meds. Now, I am constantly coughing/spitting up (tmi- yuck) phlegm. Plus, I find myself needing panty liners more than ever because of the coughing.
I did tell my mom I'd rather not go baby shopping because I didn't want to know what I was getting/help pick it out (beyond the registry w/DH) before the shower. But we still are going to lunch today, which should be interesting considering we haven't hung out in 10 years.
9.15.2012
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The summer seemed to drag and really shouldn't have since I was off all summer, but then again maybe that's why. I can't believe school has already been in session for a month!
How did I get to be 6 months pregnant already?! It seems like it's really go time now. We start our parenting classes next week- November. We'll be registering for our shower in the next two weeks, so we can send out the invites by the first week in October, which is exactly one month before the shower. We scheduled the shower November 3- 8 weeks away from due date, so that gives us plenty of time to set up the baby stuff and pick up what we still need.
We'll be doing our maternity photos in December. I was thinking the early part of the month vs. the later part (even though I'd rather be further along/bigger), but I want to be prepared in case I go early.
I can feel the baby move often now, but DH still hasn't felt him move- I'm looking forward to sharing that first experience with him. Other than that, I am feeling pretty good about how things have progressed with this pregnancy- even with all the discomforts/symptoms.
9.13.2012
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Today was the first day that people gawked at my stomach. I don't mind looking more pregnant and I know I officially popped at 20 weeks (5 months), but I'll be 24 weeks (6 months tomorrow) and it seems to have grown overnight. I can still see my feet, but I only give that another month or so. Plus, I think I'll actually get over the 200lb mark within the next two months. I weigh heavier at home then I do at the doctors office... not sure how that happens. I weigh 190 at home last week, but at my appointment I was 188. I'll take the lesser of the two! But, given that I weigh myself at home in between appointments- it will look like I gained 5lbs, even though it'll probably be a pound or two.
I'm not even sure how I'm gaining weight. I know you're supposed too, but I haven't changed my diet and I am more active and eat healthier then I did pre-pregnancy. Oh well, I guess I'll just have to work extra hard to lose the baby weight in time for short/swim suit season. I want to have my first two kids pretty close anyway, so we'll probably be trying again around this time next year.
9.12.2012
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"I'm sure you'll get a belly soon enough. Some people seem to "pop" over. My mom and sisters said they all popped at 5 months like I did, so I'm sure genetics play a role too. It's hard for me to see the scale continuing to rise and I know once I get over 200lbs I'll have a mini freak out. I really want to try to keep my weight gain at 30lbs (35 MAX), so it's easier to lose after." -- AMESSER1179
"I am sure you look WONDERFUL! I am jealous you have a belly :) I also weigh less at the doctor's office than I do at home." -- NIRALEEP
We officially signed up for Parenting classes for the next eight weeks, which starts in two weeks. The class is offered for free and we get $150 at the last class to go towards the cost of a crib.
School is going good, but definitely keeping me busy. I'm going to have to start staying until 4pm Monday-Thursday, so I can keep up with my lesson plans, grading, copying, and start working ahead on sub plans while I am gone. I'm already having a little separation anxiety about leaving my class to someone else because I feel like the students are not going to get what they would with me being there. Obviously being with my child is more important, but it's still a tug of war.
Mom wants to go baby shopping in two weeks, but I still want her to come to the shower and I don't want her throwing it in my face as a way to say she helped or so she can see the baby. I know we still need to purchase the bigger items: stroller, crib and changing table, breast pump, and possibly pack and play. I guess we'll just have to wait to see what we get at our shower.
Still going back and forth about the 3d/4d ultrasound... I would love to do it, but it's very expensive and we have had a lot of looks at Ricky. Plus, with the maternity photos and infant photos- I can just see the money being better spent. Not to mention, trying to get the remodel done and buying baby stuff. It's all a little overwhelming. At least we still have some time.
9.6.2012
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I'm up 9lbs from pre-pregnancy weight. Blood pressure was 120/80. Baby's heartbeat was 155 and I was measuring at 22cm, so 22 weeks and I'm 22 weeks 5 days... hope that doesn't mean he'll be late! All tests have come back normal and next appointment is October 4 for glucose test. Then, I'll start going every 2 weeks after that. When the doctor tried to find the heartbeat as soon as he would get on it Ricky would move. He started out at my belly button, then moved to one of my hip, then the other, and finally to right above my belly button.. sounds like we have a "fish" on our hands, lol.
Also, the doctor made a joke saying that boy's heart rates are usually in the 140's and the higher it is that means the smaller the penis- haha. Okay, so this was my first time seeing this doctor and it was a male, so a little awkward. DH lightened the mood by saying, "Well I guess that explains why mine only beats 3bpm."
9.4.2012
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I had BW3's last night and had Graeter's ice-cream for dessert. One or the other didn't agree with me because I kept waking up coughing and on the verge of puking! My stomach finally settled after taking tums, drinking loads of water, keeping a trash can next to my bed, and sleeping on my left side. Plus, I was craving Papa Johns pizza, but DH and his cousins wanted wings... I found something to eat, it just didn't agree with me. And... DH doesn't understand that when you have a craving you want it then, so it's not like I can get it today and it'll be the same. Although, it does still sound pretty good. I'm trying to be good on my diet the rest of the weekend though since I ate a bunch of bad stuff yesterday and my doctors appointment is Tuesday. I don't want to be up another 2lbs just from the weekend!
I'm also going to have to invest in a foot massager, back massager, and wrap around pregnancy pillow. I've been getting by for now with a body pillow, but I'm getting more uncomfortable the bigger I get. I had a lot of pressure the other night, which doesn't help that Ricky likes to lay so low. I can't even cross my legs anymore or bend straight over because of how low he lays. I'm on my feet all day while I teach, so my back kills me at the end of the day and my feet have started to swell. I know I have a lot more of that to look forward to, but I want to be prepared. DH said that he's bad at foot rubs. :(
We're debating on the 3d/4d ultrasound, since they are so expensive. I'd like to have one and always thought I would get one. But everything adds up and we have already had four peeks at our little guy. We're going to have to do our maternity pictures early December and Newborn pictures in January, plus all the baby stuff we'll have to still buy once we see what we need after our shower in November.
Still trying to figure out my Halloween costume this year. The girls' theme is Super Hero's. But I'll be 31 weeks pregnant by then, so trying to find something that works is hard. DH would like me to incorporate the bump somehow, too. For our Murder Mystery Party, I think I'm going to try to find an 80's theme- how fun would that be?!
All of the aches, pains, swelling, constipations, headaches, etc. are all worth it! I can't wait to meet my little man!
9.1.2012
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So the past two weeks, I just feel like I am on b**ch fest. Every little thing sets me off.
First: This year is stressful enough with being pregnant/expecting mid-year, but we also incorporated a new math series and online grading/attendance system. So all these "new" things we have to learn as we go. During our training, I found out that I have to teach kindergarten for social studies/science and the kindergarten teacher will teach first grade religion (at the same time, so we'll switch at the end of the day). Which, in general is not that big of a deal, but I've never taught kindergarten and therefore have no resources to go off of. So, when I found out I cried uncontrollably and couldn't stop. I was upset because I found out at the last minute, but not that upset. As teachers, we learn to be flexible. I went ahead and planned the first two weeks of religion and passed it along to the kindergarten teacher and I planned social studies for kindergarten since there was a manual. I told her just to pass along science materials she gathers and I'll plan for that as well.
Second: My mom, whom I don't have a good relationship with for the past 10 years, and I planned to go to lunch. She cancelled, so of course that set me off.
8.26.2012
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I can't believe I am officially over the half way mark and have 19 weeks left! Ricky has been moving a lot, especially after I eat. Yesterday he was kicking me so hard! I'm officially up 9 lbs and I'm sure by next week it'll be 10. I hate seeing the rising numbers and I haven't really changed my eating habits, so it's crazy that I'm even gaining even though I know you're supposed to when pregnant. I've been eating Raisin Brand cereal for breakfast, salad and fruit for lunch, and something with meat for dinner, so fairly healthy. 19 weeks still seems like so far away, but not that school started back I know it'll fly. I just hope we're ready for the baby when he comes. I can't wait to start setting up his space and buying baby gear or really for my shower, but that won't be until November. I'm definitely more round now, but still carrying low and small- maybe since I'm pregnant with a boy (and the Old Wives Tale is right!) Last year's kindergarten teacher, who had her baby in May (and decided to be a SAHM) visited today with her son. It made my really anxious to meet our son!
I started setting my alarm back to get up earlier at the beginning of August (a trick I learned from my mom when she used to get us up from school after summer was over). So, it's easy for me to get up earlier now. I'm a morning person anyway. I've been so tired from being more busy and being pregnant that I've been going to bed extra early and today I got up at 4am (two hours before my alarm was set to go off). I don't know how I'll juggle work and being a new mom if I go back, but especially with having to pump every 2-3 hours (and the school being flexible with that). I'd have to do it for about a year, so the rest of the school year after I come back (if I do) and the whole next school year. I want to have my first two babies pretty close together, so I don't see the point in stopping if I don't have to while pregnant with the second. No point in letting the milk dry up for 3+ months and then get it back in.
I'm excited about this school year- I just hope my students move at a quicker pace then they did this week. I'm a little uneasy about teaching kindergarten for social studies and science, but I know I'll get the hang of it after a couple of weeks. At least I don't have to teach religion anymore and I still get to teach my first graders for everything else. We didn't have a break on Wednesday and I didn't get a lot done yesterday or today for lessons next week. I even stayed until 4-4:30 all three days. I have some of my copies ready, some marked and ready to be copied, and I had to bring two subjects home to plan. The rest is finished. I may plan a little in advance, too. I'm just glad that after next week, we'll have a three day weekend and four day work week. A nice transition to a new school year. I find myself writing everything down like three times and putting them in different places just to make sure I don't forget what I need to do, where I need to go and when because I have full blown pregnancy brain!
8.24.2012
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BOY! Richard "Ricky" Golden. He was 12oz, had long legs, and a big head! He was laying vertically with his hands behind his head (one on each side) and legs crossed- like his daddy already! HB was 146. The ultrasound tech had to shake my belly just to wake him up to get him to uncross his legs.
So glad that he is healthy and all of our test has come back normal. We are truly blessed and even though we really wanted a girl, we are both thrilled to be having a boy. Boys have their mommy's heart from the beginning and always have a strong bond. Boys and their daddy's can do guy things- fishing, sports, etc. I know FIL is so excited, especially since he's named after him and DH. It's the in-laws first grandbaby, so they were happy either way.
I took a picture of my dad opening the blue picture frame and he cried! All of his girls (including me now) have boys and he always wanted one, but he's an awesome grandpa.
It's a good thing I love green! Now, I just have to get some of those pee cloths, so he doesn't pee on me, LOL!
Attached, is a picture of my bump! This is how we announced the gender on FB!
8.14.2012
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I got the maternity clothes I ordered online from Old Navy, JC Penny, and Burlington Coat Factory. I must say, for the money, I am very happy with the pants I ordered from Burlington. I'll probably order at least one more pair of jeans from them since they only cost $15.
I had to return one pair of pants from JC Penny because for some reason I ordered two gray pair. I have a khaki and grey pair from Burlington and black pair from JC Penny. I need one more pair of dress pants, but they all seem to come in those three colors. Plus, I like the below the belly fit, which is even harder to find. I did find a brown pair on Amazon that I'll probably get, but they are a little pricey. I guess I really don't have a choice though since I need four pair of work pants and a pair of jeans just to get me through my work week.
I ordered the tops from Old Navy and I am very happy with them. I ordered large in everything since I was borderline and all the pants fit well (I did order a medium in the jeans from Burlington). However, some of the tops are not as fitted, so you can't really tell I'm pregnant. Maybe, I should have got a medium, but I figured it gives me wiggle room for growth. They are all really comfy and cute. I figured if I just wear a belt under the bust to define my pregnant belly, you'll definitely be able to tell. Definitely a huge difference for comfort in the maternity clothes. I also feel good that they are stylish, too!
I'll probably get some casual shirts, couple more pair of jeans, a few more dressy shirts, and a couple of sweaters- then call it quits. Terrible, I know. But I figured while I am transitioning back to regular clothes I can still wear the maternity pants and some of the tops and sweaters. And... since this is my first pregnancy I can wear it with other pregnancies as well. Plus, I need bras, which I'll probably get nursing bras to make it practical.
I was looking online for DH some clothes today, too. He's in desperate need of an updated wardrobe. Khols seems to be the place to go for him. Mens clothes are so much cheaper than womens. He's so tolerate and unless I buy him what I think he needs, he just makes due. Plus, we still have to invest another $200 in the car, buy an entertainment center (we found a great one at IKEA for $160) and we want a big screen TV to finish off the living room remodel. Then, we need to start on the bedroom remodel (and have that finished in the next two months), so we can start on the hallway and bathroom... plus, baby stuff! Ideally, the remodeling needs to be finished by spring. We had to spread it out a little more since we originally planned by the time the baby comes, but budget and other expenses dictate differently. I guess a March date would be more realistic to spread it out and that gives me until the end of my maternity leave.
8.11.2012
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"I have been buying dresses that are big and wavey so I can grow and not have to change them. I work full time too. I figure if I can get away with these till it gets cold then I can figure out what size I will be.
My SO is gaining weight with me, it appears, so we are having to buy new clothing for him as well. I will tell him about that kholes deal.
I must say I am truly blessed to have the husband I do and met him at such a young age. Even though we've only been married going on three years in November, we've been together for 11 1/2 and have our first baby on the way.
DH worked at a free teacher store for me yesterday because he didn't want me lifting or bending. If you work three hours you get to fill up a shopping cart for free. Then, today he's going to help set-up my classroom and it's a lot of work. He doesn't want me bending or lifting, so he's going to be putting books away, hanging posters (so I don't have to stand on chairs, which isn't safe anyway, but especially not pregnant), and various other things. Then he came home and did the laundry- again because he doesn't want me bending or lifting. I do put it away because he doesn't like folding and that's the least I can do.
On top of all of that... we had a two hour conversation of the what ifs...
1) am I going to stay home after the baby?
2) should he stay home for couple of years until we have baby #2?
3) do we trust anyone else watching the baby other than us?
4) since I already have a career how's that going to affect his work if he takes indefinite time off?
My POV: Obviously, we don't have any answers to those questions and since I work in a very small Catholic school I'm always at risk of losing my job every year since I was the last one hired. I'm not sure how I will feel until the baby comes and I am in baby mode. I'm afraid of making a decision I'll regret, but I can always go back to teaching since I do have a career. I don't like the idea of not being independent since I always have been able to take care of myself financially without having to rely on anyone. I'll miss teaching. My kids will be the most important thing to me. Do I really have to sacrifice one for the other?
DH POV: He doesn't mind staying home as long as one of us is with the kids. If he does stay home he doesn't want it to be more than a couple of years, so he's not out of the work force so long he has to start over at entry level. If he does stay home, he wants to use that time to get some sort of certification and have enough notice/time to get it, so he can get a better job. It's going to be hard for him as a man to let me be the "bread winner." If he gets a job working from home that would be the ideal situation, so neither of us has to sacrifice something, but chances are slim. However, that would allow me to make a decision either way and feel good about it, plus he'd be home to help, too if I stay home.
We'd prefer for one of us to be home with the kids because kids are so impressionable from birth-five and that's such a window of learning opportunities. If we leave someone else (even someone we trust) to watch our kids, we don't know what kind of impression they are leaving, if they are taking teaching opportunities like we would, etc.
All in all, he's leaving the decision to me. He's not forcing me to be a stay at home mom and he's being flexible to him being a stay at home dad, at least short term. He's truly my best friend! Since I'll be getting short-term disability at least until March he's going to maybe use this year to get the certification if I stay home, otherwise he'll get it when he needs to. Either way it works and he's leaving the decision to me. I love him- he truly is my best friend!
8.8.2012
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"That is wonderful! You are very lucky! Good luck on making a decision!" -- QUINTERO-MARTIN
Last night I dreamed that we went in for our ultrasound appointment and Jason was distracted with adding up numbers and he wanted me to help him, so he wasn't even paying attention to our baby. Plus, the ultrasound tech wasn't the normal one and a nurse did it. She didn't even tell us the gender, rushed through the appointment, and printed out the pictures on white garbage bags. I know that wouldn't happen. I was so mad a Jason in the dream I told him he was never allowed to come back with me. I also woke up at 7:30am from that dream peeved at him because of the dream, so I went back to sleep to sleep it off.
8.7.2012
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"That doesn't sound like much fun! Looks like we all are having nightmares now. Just know your not alone in them!" -- QUINTERO-MARTIN
I had my monthly OB appt today. I'm up 6lbs from pre-pregnancy weight, which according to the doctor is normal and she said to expect a total weight gain of 30-35lbs... hopefully it's more like 25-30. My blood pressure was normal. I also had blood test for Down Syndrome and Spina Bifida. If I don't hear anything in the next week everything is normal. THe baby's heartbeat was 160 and the doctor said she could hear it moving, lol. I bet it was, it's been moving a lot over the past week.
We scheduled the gender ultrasound for Tuesday, August 14. I am so excited/nervous. We TTC a girl, but would be happy with either as long as the baby is healthy. Plus, I kind of anticipating it being a boy.
8.6.2012
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"Congrats! Let us know what you find out about the gender!! :-) " -- QUINTERO-MARTIN
This pregnancy is going slow and fast at the same time. I'm sure once school starts back, and I am more busy, it'll fly. I just hope we can get our remodeling done by the time the baby comes. I woke up two days ago and looked down at my belly- that was exposed from sleeping- and I could see my bump even laying down. It's becomming more real the further I get. I know once I feel the baby move more consistently, I'm wearing maternity clothes, and find out the gender- it'll definitely be real!
I've been having some strange dreams the past few days too, like DH divorcing me. I've been craving specific food this week, which is funny to me considering I had so many food aversions first trimester. I had a major craving for Lucky Charms. I'm still doing well with my weight gain- up 4lbs, I hope I can keep it at that for the next couple of weeks. I do find myself with more emotional with shorter patience. Also, the past couple of days I've had a clumsy spell, I don't know what got into me.
My next appointment is Monday, August 6, but that's just for blood test to test for Down Syndrome and Spinia Bifida (at 18 weeks 4 days). I'm hoping I can schedule our sonogram for Friday, August 17 about 3:30pm (after training for my job)- at 20 weeks 1 day, so we can find out the gender. Otherwise, we'll have to wait until Tuesday, August 21.
7.26.2012
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"Good Luck with your Dr. Appointment! I hope you get to find out what you are having. I am finding the food cravings starting but no bump while laying down for me. I am a couple weeks behind you. Can't wait to see it like you do! Have fun at your training and happy Monday!" -- QUINTERO-MARTIN
Woo hoo for being in the 2nd trimester! I had a doctor's appointment yesterday, but it was just to hear the heart beat on the doppler, which was 155. I have a home doppler that I bought for myself for my bday, so it wasn't that big of a deal. My next appointment is August 6 at 18 weeks 4 days for blood test- testing for spina bifida and down syndrome.
Physically, I have a noticeable bump. I need to get another scale at home, so I can monitor my weight to make sure I don't gain too much since I started out heavier. I have been having really bad heartburn at night and occasional headaches. The doctor said I can take tums and tylenol, so that was good to know. I get semi nauseous at night or when I go too long without eating, but it has gotten much better. Energy is better than it was, but I get drained really easy when I'm running around.
I'm definitely going to have to invest in maternity clothes ASAP! I keep putting it off, but I have browsed in stores- I just can't find anything that appeals to me.
Emotionally, hearing my baby's heartbeat at home everyday is so amazing. I cry really easily at nothing now- though I was a little bit of a cry baby before. I am so ready to actually have a baby bump vs. baby bloat. I won't be able to find out the gender until 20-22 weeks according to my doctor, which really stinks. I want to know what this baby is so I stop calling the baby an "it." We really want a girl, but I think we're going to have a boy and I keep dreaming about having a son. It really doesn't matter was long as the baby is healthy. The in-laws are so excited, they've already said anytime we need a break to let them watch it and I'm not even near having it yet, lol. My husband is an only child, so our children will be their only grand children, so I am sure they're excited. My dad and step mom have 7 grandchildren already and my mom has one. Most of them are boys though, so we could sure use a girl to help balance it out- I think it would be make my dad more excited if it were a girl since all of his girls had boys.
I find myself wanting the weeks to go faster at least until we find out what it is. We're going to come up with a way make the gender announcement special like a youtube video or something. We did a movie poster for our wedding announcement, so we'll definitely have to make the gender announcement special/creative, too.
7.14.2012
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"Thanks for the suggestion on maternity clothes. I find browsing online much easier than actually looking in stores. Do you know if you go by your regular size for maternity clothes? Motherhood Maternity said regular size up to 20 weeks and then up one size after 20 weeks- not sure if that's the same with all maternity clothes or not." -- AMESSER1179
"Love the ideas for the gender announcement!
As for maternity clothes, I'm pretty picky as well but Old Navy has some good ones for good prices..." -- JLTATER3997
How am I feeling? I am less nauseous, as long as I don't go too long without eating. I have more energy, as long as I don't do too much. I am still getting up in the middle of the night to pee, which I know I better get used too because it apparently gets worse in later pregnancy. I am having very vivid dreams about obscure things. "Baby-brain" has officially kicked in, too.
I'm not showing yet or can't feel the baby move, and I know I still have plenty of time to experience it, but after two miscarriages it would be a relief to have a physical sign that everything is OK! I've read in my books and online that with your first you don't start to show or feel the baby move until 18-20 weeks, so still another 5-7 weeks.
I haven't gained any weight yet, but I am very bloated. Even my loser clothes I have to wear my maternity band with now. So I just look fat and feel an unnecessary need to announce I am pregnant, especially in public. My 28th birthday is Monday and I am going to buy a fetal heart rate doppler to put my mind at ease between appointments. I hate waiting four weeks! My next appointment isn't until July 13 when I am 15 weeks. My next appointment after that should be for the gender reveal, so early-mid August. I am so anxious, excited, nervous to find out what the gender is since we TTC a girl. I will be happy either way as long as the baby is healthy!
6.27.2012
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I called to schedule a sonogram at 10 weeks, but they said they couldn't do it without the doctors requests. Luckily, my doctor approved it because there was specific things they were looking for.
At the 10 week sonogram the baby was very active and HB was 171.
We had an appointment the following week at 11 weeks to hear the baby's heartbeat on the doppler. After 10 minutes, they couldn't find it, so they sent me in for another sonogram. Baby was flaying about- kicking and punching. I guess it's a good thing I can't feel it at this point. HB was 167.
I am 12 weeks today and starting to get a little bump. I am also starting to get my energy back. Although, still feeling a bit nauseous.
This picture is the sonogram from 11 weeks.
6.21.2012
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"Actually, three times. We had an early sonogram at 6 weeks 5 days to see the heart beat, by the request of the doctor, following two miscarriages." -- AMESSER1179
"How cool that you have gotten to see your baby twice already! What a relief!" -- JLTATER3997
We went in for a sonogram last Tuesday, May 15 at 6 weeks 6 days and we saw a beautiful heart beating at a lovely 125 bpm. They said anything over 120 is normal and the reason ours was in the lower range is because it just started beating. I don't go back until June 15, which seems like torture especially after two losses to have to wait so long. I'll be 11 weeks by then, so I am assuming we'll get to hear the heartbeat.
I think I'm going to call this week to see if I can schedule another sonogram at 10 weeks, which is just past when we had the missed miscarriage last time followed by D and C. Ideally, I would like to have another one at 14 weeks (or at least have the one at 14 weeks), then I could wait until the 20 week one. I just want to see the baby to make sure everything is still progressing normally.
I definitely feel pregnant with nausea, bloated, gas, nightmares, fatigue, and gag reflexes when brushing my teeth, so that at least gives me some reassurance.
5.21.2012
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"sorry about the past miscarriages but this is great news about getting to hear the heart beat. I'm sure they can work with you on setting them for week 10 and 14 due to past history. Best of luck!!" -- IMABAM0MMY83
I've taken 3 ovulation test over the past two days to use as a pre-pregnancy test since they were positive when I was pregnant last time. They've been postive, so I finally took a cheapie Equate +/- test and it was BFP!
I'm only 13DPO- CD28, so I am going to test again tomorrow using Clear Blue Easy Digital pregnant/not pregnant.
This is our third pregnancy (third try) after two miscarriages, so I'm trying to stay positive. I'll feel much better once I see the heartbeat. At least I've been sick the past two days, so maybe that's a good sign.
I'm due January 2.
4.24.2012
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"Congarts! I just found out I am due the 14th!" -- KRISTENJH
This month we officially TTC again. This is our third attempt since August 2011. We did get pregnant our first month of trying. Followed by a miscarriage at 5 weeks;2days. I bled really heavy (like a period) with lots of cramps for a week. Then when my cycle returned 6 weeks; 1 day later, we TTC again in November. We got pregnant (only trying one time). We went in for a sonogram at 8 weeks;5days in January and they said the baby's heart stopped beating at 8 weeks;2days. We had a second sonogram at 9 weeks; 2 days for confirmation. Then, we moved ahead with the D and C at 9 weeks;4days. I took that Thursday and Friday off work and Monday was MLK Jr. holiday, so I didn't have to work. Thank goodness. I had light(er) bleeding with cramps for 10 days. I bleed heavy and cramped really bad on Tuesday when I returned back to work. I assumed because I was on my feet all day. The doctor said we had to wait two cycles before we could TTC again since I bleed for so long. My cycle returned 6 weeks;1 day later and again normal amount of days with next one. Since we're TTC a girl, I am on a no red meat, potatoes, tomatoes, or bananas diet and plenty of calcium, berries and chocolate. We're TTC using the O+12 method, meaning that we're trying 12 hours after getting +OPK. I hope this is our month. I can't take another loss. Regardless of what gender the "baby" is. It's still too early to take a pregnancy test 11dpo, but since I had some OPK left and they were + when I was pregnant last time, I figured I could use that to test before I take a HPT. It's still -, but they are the digital ones and I did see two lines (unlike when I tested earlier)... just one was fainter than the other. I am hoping when I test again in a couple of days it will be +. I've had some symptoms like bloated, fatigue, etc. I only have one chart to go off of when I didn't get pregnant, so I am comparing the two pregnancy charts to the non-pregnancy chart. Right now my temps are still really high and they dropped at 12dpo just before my period last month. If they stay high, that's a pretty good indicator that I am pregnant or if they drop that my cycle is about to start. FX for BFP, but only time will tell... we'll see.
4.22.2012
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Really, Ricky is 11 1/2 weeks, but close enough. 
I can't believe my son is already a month old (and on my MIL b-day)! I'm happy to see him grow/change everyday, but I want to keep him small. 
I can't believe my baby is already three weeks old/ going on four weeks on MIL's bday (Sunday). 
31 Days until my due date! We took maternity photos over the weekend and they turned out beautiful. I am really happy with the results. It was a 3 hour process between waiting to be called back, taking the photos, and waiting for them to be printed. We went in with a budget in mind and went over that because we wanted the CD with all the photos. I went to the doctors today and this week I'll be 36 weeks, but not until Thursday. I figured they'd start checking me for dilation and effacement, but they said they'll do that next week since I'm not quite 36 weeks. Ricky has been head down since 32 weeks, so the movement I've been feeling is his butt, lol. The doctor said he needs to stretch just like anyone else. 
Our baby shower was a week ago (tomorrow). We had a nice crowd and got a lot of good stuff. We have to take the duplicates back, but that'll go toward other baby stuff we need. We still need: 
BOY! Richard "Ricky" Golden. He was 12oz, had long legs, and a big head! He was laying vertically with his hands behind his head (one on each side) and legs crossed- like his daddy already! HB was 146. The ultrasound tech had to shake my belly just to wake him up to get him to uncross his legs. 
I called to schedule a sonogram at 10 weeks, but they said they couldn't do it without the doctors requests. Luckily, my doctor approved it because there was specific things they were looking for. 
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