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"Congrats & great story... I feel everyone as the same scary feeling. I am staring to get them and I am just 31 weeks. You never know what to expect even if you already had other kids." -- LEO31311 - 4/25/2013 9:04:09 PM
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"Congratz and nice story." -- DEVINWIFE - 4/25/2012 11:08:37 AM
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"And here I thought my reaction to an emergency C-section was a bit bizarre. I felt if I had to get it, I was going to die. It really helps knowing I'm not alone in that feeling, irrational or not lol. Good luck with your girls! They're so precious when they are tiny! :D" -- EZRAI_HARLEY - 4/25/2011 10:21:40 AM
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"Oh my gosh girl! congrats and awesome job!
I to am in Japan, with my husband who is a marine, we are here in Iwakuni. it has been so awesome to have his mother being so supportive.
My mother had nothing to do with our wedding or pregnancy. you've gone through a lot it sounds. my hat is off to you!" -- MYMORNINGAIR - 10/23/2010 12:00:59 PM
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"Dani- No matter how hard it is you have to just tell the father. If he is a true man he will step up to the plate and support you and be a father to your child. If he isn't then you are better off without him. I was kind of in the same situation except that from the beginning of my relationship my, now husband, told me that if we became pregnant he wouldn't leave he would be there for me. Well we met in June 2007 and by October I found out that I was pregnant. He was true to his word and supported me through the whole thing. In Feb 2008 we married and May 29, 2008 Mj made her appearance into the world. We are trying to have a 2nd child and can't wait to celebrate our 3rd anniversary next year. I hope you can have the same luck that I had. Good luck and if you need someone to talk to I'm only an email away :)" -- PHOENIX511 - 10/22/2010 8:30:38 AM
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"this is a response to Dani. I am 35, married and expecting my third child. My first pregnancy was when I was 24. I was scared and single. I had just ended the relationship with the baby's father and wasn't sure if I wanted to "try" to make it work with him. It's difficult for men to make adjustments when they are not already in a committed relationship. My advice to you is to decided in your heart if you truly want to raise this child as a single parent. You will always be tied to this man as the father of your child. But, he may not "step up" and be a dad. It's wonderful that you have family support. You can do this as a single parent...but the decision must be wholeheartedly your own. I would consider waiting until after you are 12 weeks, as I have also had two miscarriages and you want to be sure that you are going to HAVE a baby. Then let him know that you are pregnant without putting any expectations on him. Let him know that you would like to get to know him and see if there is a relationship between the two of you, but don't let marriage or the future stand in the way of him participating to whatever degree he feels comfortable. I tried co-parenting with my son's father for sometime and he really never put his whole heart into it. He is no longer in my son's life. But after my son was 5 - I met a wonderful man, got married and as they say....lived happily ever after. You can do this!! Bless you and I wish you ALL the best." -- FITBABYMAMA3 - 4/25/2010 10:24:07 PM
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"Its crazy how things work out sometimes. I too, became pregnant unexpectedly, and very soon after I started seeing the father. It was hard to tell him, but I did, and hoped for the best. He was very supportive (although shocked at first) and we eventually married. We have now been together for 11 years, married for nine, and are expecting baby #4! Good luck to you all :):)" -- BESTLIFE1979 - 4/25/2010 5:07:37 PM
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"It was nice to read your story and I am glad things worked out with you and Olly. I am 24 and expecting for the first time and I am single. Fortunately, I have a very supportive family but my biggest concern is telling the father. I am only four weeks along, but every day I think about how I am going to tell him and when I am going to tell him. We went on two dates and then he became extremely busy with work. Any advice?" -- DANI_RHIANN - 1/18/2010 3:03:14 PM
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"That's a beautiful story.. I was touched.." -- KARISHMA.R - 10/22/2009 10:07:06 AM
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"Beautiful story it is always nice to read of other woman going through similar situations. I am married now but he is in the navy and out to sea and might not make it to the birth so I understand your feeling of lonelyness in the beginning. It is always great to have support around, and scary if you don't" -- ROCKY32 - 4/25/2009 8:10:29 PM
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"I work part-time in Japan and am interested in your nutrition while you were stationed oversees. What types of things did you eat?
Love your story!! Congratulations!" -- JDYERFOX - 4/16/2009 3:45:28 PM
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"This was a lovely story. I was single when I had my first set of twins, identical girls. I had similar obstacles to overcome, although I was younger. I am so happy for you and your family!
I am much older now with two more daughters, singletons, and a brand new set of twins! I was just as surprised with this set of twins as I was with the first set." -- 4GIRLSADDBABY - 12/31/2008 1:14:50 AM
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"Hi Kathleen, nice to read your story.
I'm not a single mum, but I'm expecting twins, and am always interested in stories about the pregnencies and births!
I have created a 'twins and more mummy team, trying to find some mtb's and mums of multiple to get on and have a chat!
Glad everything worked out for you in the end! fairy-tale ending- you got the prince!
mummyteam- twins and more" -- BABYBUMP1978 - 11/7/2008 3:40:51 PM
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"I loved this story too. I'm 22 and a single mom to be- I don't know if the father & I will work out, but this story gives me hope that everything will turn out just fine! Thanks." -- M.ONSTAD - 10/23/2008 4:51:53 AM
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"That is such a beautiful story. Brought tears to my eyes!
Congratulationsss!!! I send beautiful prayers to you and your family.
" -- BRANDONSMOMMA09 - 10/22/2008 7:09:08 PM
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"Awwww what a great story!!!!" -- HMFRYKLUND - 10/22/2008 1:07:18 AM
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"I would recommend picking up an English language newspaper in Japan. I lived in Asia (Korea) for a year and know how isolating it can be. Also, try contacting your local consulate. They have resources for expats. Try searching the Mommy Teams for other moms living overseas. Or, check out the Single Mom teams.
Get yourself a good Japanese phrasebook. Also, check out Dave's ESL Cafe (daveseslcafe.com). You'll find plenty of resources for expats in Japan.
Gokouun o inorimasu (Good luck!)" -- STEPF_BABYFIT - 9/18/2008 1:17:49 PM
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"i just turned 24 last week and i moved to japan a month ago. im all alone too and im so terrified but knowing that your story is so similar to mine and that you have a happy ending is so very encouraging. i think youre so brave and strong, everyday im so terrified , lost and confused in this strange country with no one i can talk to. i wish i was with my mother, or that i had a husband or some family. i cant imagine having to give birth all alone in two more months so i prefer to just not think about it. i went to the hospital here but no one there spoke a word of english. how did you find a doctor who spoke english?" -- CHUKIWAN - 9/18/2008 10:28:32 AM
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"Giving birth is wonderful experience. I wish I have a twin daughter like you too. Every mother has different labour experience and I would say I am lucky to have such experience nurses & doctor to help me though this. After my son, Janson born, now I know how much my parents have gone thru. Although going thru this again is not going to be easy but I am willing to try again. For the smile of my baby. I will. It's all worth it when you watch him grow healtily and happily." -- SSWLEO - 4/27/2008 7:15:41 AM
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"Thats a heartwarming story..was glad to read that it was all good in the. end...my son is almost 10months old n I took care of him alone ..I do hope u have help with the kids..it can be really tiring and trying..." -- DEIRDRESINGH - 4/26/2008 8:23:07 AM
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"Hello
Your story moved me. You are blessed indeed.
My aunt died during child-birth. Since I am now her age carying high risk twins, I am terified. I also have no family. It is just me and my husband, which is plenty. As long as I have him I am good. I wish to know more about your pregnancy. How did you plan your nutrition for twins?
Thank you
Faith" -- FDARVISH5 - 1/19/2008 8:44:16 PM
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"What a sweet story!!! It brought tears to my eyes. I am so happy that Olly chose to be a daddy, unlike most stories you hear." -- FLESHOFDAISY - 1/18/2008 1:39:48 PM
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"I am so happy for you. You stood strong and I like that. Thank God for those bundles of blessings. May they always bring joy and riches for you and never sorrow... Amen! CONGRATULATIONS!!!" -- ZEENTEE - 10/23/2007 6:52:04 AM
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"waw , you are so strong ! my God be with you always and keep enjoying your family , you deserve to be happy!
" -- TATOU1019 - 10/22/2007 11:13:11 AM
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"Wow! Thank you for sharing your story. Wishing you and yours the very best in the days,months and years to come!" -- SUEAMANDA - 10/22/2007 9:18:11 AM
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"Congrats and I hope they will bring you lots of joy!! Love their names!!" -- 123EMMA - 4/30/2007 1:47:03 AM
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"I'm 27 weeks and the doctor said my pelvic bone is narrow so I may need a c-section. Thank you for your story, it has made feel a little better. I'm also extremely worried and overstressed, so it's nice to hear that it was all well for you. I am in tears, and be it the hormones or just the comfort of knowing that everyone could be just fine, I thank you for sharing your story. best of wishes for your family." -- QUEMAMA - 4/25/2007 7:52:53 PM
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"Thanks for sharing your beautiful story. Now that I'm pregnant I need to read and hear nice stories like this one cause sometimes I get so nervous and stress.
Alex." -- MAFALDA - 4/25/2007 11:27:22 AM
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"wow! Glad you had a safe delivary. People have been saying, "it'd be a double blessing if you have twins". Yeah, it would but I'm already full on the blessings department with just one new life inside. I'm also in Japan, in Hokkaido :)" -- HALFANDHALF - 4/25/2007 10:47:53 AM
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"What an interesting article. I wrote an article in 2003 about breastfeeding on breastfeeding.com that inspired other mothers...this inspired me! I am thankful that you started the thread I am on EVERY day USMC Mommy....the Twins thread. I just found out we are having twins and I really love the interaction with the other mothers on this site. It has been a lifesaver. Congratulations and Semper Fi! I, too, will soon be married to a proud Marine.
" -- MOMMYDEMPSEY - 4/25/2007 8:49:26 AM
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"You are a courageous woman! What a happy ending to your story-two healthy girls and a loving husband. Thank you for sharing your experience.
" -- CATHY_CRAM_MS - 2/7/2007 11:19:41 PM
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"Very nice story. So wonderful that you had twins! I am also due to have my baby in Japan, that is what caught my eye with your story on the front page. I still have 6 weeks to go, I am glad everything worked out for you! All the best." -- SHENANEGANS - 2/7/2007 4:33:28 AM
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"Definitely inspiring! I'm almost 30 weeks right now, but luckily only with one baby! I also am stationed in Okinawa, Japan so it was strange to see your article on the front page! Congrats on the twins and hope the fam is doing terrific!" -- BBEMIS67 - 2/7/2007 2:42:26 AM
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"Wow! What an inspiring story. I have been there before, being a single, pregnant, and not knowing what the dad would do. Unfortunately, he was a huge jerk. Fortunately, my family WAS supportive, and I eventually met and married my husband of 8 years, who treats our oldest as though she were his flesh and blood. I'm so glad to hear that your man proposed and wants to be a family with you and your little angels. Your mom came around too - that's awesome. I'm just happy that it all worked out so well for you because pregnancy is already so hard in general but you had a lot to be stressed about. Thanks for serving our country, too. You're truly a supermom. Take care!" -- MAMA4LIFE - 10/24/2006 2:58:49 PM
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"Ok, now I'm at work trying not to cry. That was soooo special. Makes me proud to be a woman. Before I got pregnant I just DIDN'T KNOW how brave you have to be at times to get through this time. God bless you, your twins and all of the families at babyfit.com" -- JOSHEDA - 10/23/2006 1:36:57 PM
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"I just wanted to say articles like this make me feel alot better about my situation. Im 20 years old and also in the military. Im married but my husband is deployed. Im at a new base and dont know anyone so ive been basically alone, no family or close friends. Its very encouraging to hear from other women who have made it through similar experiences. I wish the best of luck to any other women going through something like this...its hard sometimes to be strong with no support. I would also like to thank all the women who come out here and share their stories. You may not know it but it helps." -- SHAKURSRAVEN - 10/22/2006 10:14:09 PM
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"Hey there I just thought that I would tell you that I am going through a very similar situation. The father of my baby does want to be involved, but he is in Japan at the moment and can't come stateside for a while. I am about 5 1/2 months pregnant and living my myself with no family and hardly any friends in Salt Lake City, Utah. I'm also in the military. Sites like this and seeing that you're not alone will help you a lot. And not to mention that keeping yourself busy will work miracles. Try to excercise too. It really helps me to spend a while everyday in the gym. It gives me time to really think about the things that I need to think about, but keeps me busy enough that I don't have to worry about the silly ones! Keep in mind too that you'll feel so overwhelmed b/c of those hormones! If you do feel like it's too much, try to find a pregnancy support group. There's places like that everywhere!" -- HEMIJAY9 - 10/22/2006 4:16:20 PM
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"I am 6mo. pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl. I am having alot of the same concerns that you had. I will be doing it alone tho. The father pretty much dont want to be in the picture. Do you have any tips that could help me get thru this? I have dropped alot over night, does this mean that they are comming soon? Please respond to this or email me at godsjewel2004@yahoo.com. Thanks!!!" -- GODSJEWEL2004 - 4/25/2006 4:21:18 PM
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