Don't know what to do

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SARASATIN
Posts: 5826
8/17/10 10:34 A

Are they giving you any reason for the m/c? Soemthing that can be hopefully prevented with extra hormones or anything like that? If there isn't one and the doctors can't tell you if they can help maybe you should simply tell your husband that you need a break to think about things. If you find that you just can't handle it again you can always look to try fostering or adoption.

I think the most important thing is that you relay to him that you need time for your body and heart to heal so you can find the right path for you.

Naomi Rose 8/19/08 6 lbs 11.5 oz 19.5 in

Ariel Joy 4/14/11 5 lbs 12.7 oz 19 in

Hope Rebecca 4/14/11 4 lbs 7.3 oz 17.5 in

YOSHI_MAMA
Posts: 4928
8/15/10 2:45 A

DH and I Lost the last pregnancy on July 31. It was even harder because we found out that we would have had twins. So Basically this is the 5th M/C I've had, the 3rd with twins. And To be honest I'm not sure I want to try again. I think the only reason I haven't fallen into a deep depression is because I know I have two perfect and healthy children.

The problem is DH wants another baby. He doesn't think we'll have another M/C but Considering I had 4 M/C before I had Joey I'm not so sure that I wouldn't have a 6th. I really don't think I could handle having a 6th M/C, I really think it might be too much. This feels like its almost too much. The problem is that I would love to have a third child I'm just so afraid of having another M/C. Ryan is sad but since he wasn't with me when I had the other 4 he doesn't know how much it really hurts me. What do you guys think?

Beth

Joey was Born 9-27-08 @5:15 PM, 8 lbs 12 ounces-19 inches long Via Emergency C/S

Sara arrived 10-9-09 @12:46 PM Via C-section, 8 lbs 3 oz, 18.5 inches long.

Wyatt arrived 5-30-12 @2:04 PM via C-section. 8 lbs 4 oz, 18.5 inches long.

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