Jackson Paul: 1-20-2005, Weight at birth:8lbs 11oz
Guy "Landon": 4-25-2006, Weight at birth:11lbs 5oz
JAEB8741
Posts: 7555
9/14/07 3:41 P
Kara, I'm sorry to hear what you are going through. You don't need something like that in your life. He has no right to blow up at you for anything HE did... a$$hole!
Jen
MRSJIKZ
Posts: 1632
9/14/07 3:08 A
Kara, I'm so sorry he did that to you. I'm so proud of you for sticking up for yourself (and really, for your son too) and kicking him to the curb! And you have every right to be angry with BOTH of them! I can't believe this other chick got pissed because you vented in your blog. She has no right to be angry because SHE is in the wrong, not you. *hugs!* You'll find someone that will treat both you and your son the way you both deserve. Neil just wasn't it. You did the right thing.
Julie
Caleb Daniel born April 2006 at 34 weeks 4lbs 7oz
Gwyneth Caelan born January 2008 at 39 weeks 6lbs 3oz
Jayden Elisha arrived early at 27 weeks in September 2009 1lb 9oz
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CHRISLIA
Posts: 1864
9/13/07 9:25 P
Kara
My mom always told me that you need to find someone who loves you a tiny bit more than you love them, if ya know what I mean. If you thought you had it good when it was good with Neil, just think how good it will be with the right guy!!!!! Do your thing, and he'll come looking for you!
MY BABY IS 3!!!!!
Michelle-Mommy to Christian and Lia, loving wife to Steven.
KERRIGIRL
Posts: 9010
9/13/07 9:16 A
Sounds like you made the right decision. You deserve to be with someone who will respect you and be faithful to you!!
Korban born April 16, 2006
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Before I formed you in the womb I knew you. Jeremiah 1:5 (NIV)
KASHURLEY
Posts: 819
9/12/07 8:12 P
I am so sorry you're going through all of that! But you are right about not being with someone who disrespects you, no one deserves that! I'll be praying for you though!
Jackson Paul: 1-20-2005, Weight at birth:8lbs 11oz
Guy "Landon": 4-25-2006, Weight at birth:11lbs 5oz
RYLANS_MOMMY
Posts: 7123
9/12/07 7:15 P
and I am tired of it. I broke everything off with Neil last week. I was SO freaking tired of putting in 110% and him putting in practically nothing. I also felt he was cheating on me.
I was right. And I knew who it was with too. I am SO mad. This is the one man who promised never to do that to me. The man I was supposed to marry. And he KNEW what he did was wrong and he felt HORRIBLE for it.
Riiiiiiiight.
Then he starts defending HER. Are you KIDDING me??? She KNEW me! She met me! She KNEW we were engaged! So yes, I have every damn right to be pissed off at her right now. I am madder at him but still POd at her. So I write a blog getting my frustrations out on Myspace the other night. Well apparently it wasn't private and she went to my page and read it. And complains to him. Then he yells at ME! (We were trying the friends thing) Its a loooooong story.
But basically after what he said to me today I am over it. DONE. Finito! I confronted him about something I had heard about his ex. I was told she had an STD (she told this friend the information herself so I know its true) and asked him about it and if I needed to be tested. He then went OFF. He said he was tested when he joined the military but maybe he should get tested again to make sure he didn't pick up anything from me.
Sweetheart eh? I am done. I wasted the last 8 1/2 months with this jackoff and I am ready to move on...and it is SO hard to know we are completely done. But I am not going to try to be friends with someone who is continually disrespecting me by staying with this nasty chick..
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