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MRSMM2011
Posts: 158
12/14/11 3:42 P

Sorry, I don't have any advice but just wanted to offer you hugs!

My husband and I have been together 9 years, and also married in June! We're waiting until the spring of 2012 to TTC and it seems like FOREVER. My clock has been ticking about the same amount of time as yours.

I guess we'll just have to be patient! It's so hard though...

Me - 30 DH - 33
Married since June 2011
Expecting our first little one in March 2013!

AMANDA_JK
Posts: 21
12/4/11 10:21 A

I'm so frustrated! My husband finished 8 years of school in August and has now been looking for a job for 4 months. He may have a lead on a job but he doesn't have anything yet. We have been together for 8 years, were married and in June and moved in to our new house in October. My baby clock has been ticking uncontrolably for almost 3 years. My husband doesn't want to start trying to have a baby until he is working - in my mind I know this makes sense but in my heart I'm frustrated and sad that we have to wait. Most of our friends have had a baby within the last year or are pregnant so this doesn't help my mind set. Plus I get so sad every time I see someone pregnant - I just can't help but thinking "that's my dream, I wish that was me". I know the right thing to do is wait but I just can't help but feeling sad and frustrated about the whole situation.

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