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KACSAMAMA
Posts: 3435
1/14/11 8:26 A

OMG Calee, I'm so sorry for all that's been happening to you and your kids. But I'm really glad you're looking forward to the future and found a vocation. Wishing you the best of luck with everything!

JENNIEF
Posts: 2332
1/11/11 5:11 A

You poor girl! Big hugs! And umm... after that yeah I wouldn't let them have her alone ever again! They kept her from you and expect you to be like oh it's okay... what? How dare they!

So glad you have her back. I hope things get better soon for you.

Payden Paige
Born Oct 16, 2006
7lbs 1oz
2wks early due to Pre E!

Charlie Jo
March 20, 2009
7lbs 7oz

Adelynn Ann
Due April 13, 2011!

KITTYVONENGLISH
Posts: 2627
1/10/11 8:00 P

I'm so glad you came on here Calee to tell your story.
You are indeed a strong woman, keep doing what your doing.

AND THE NERVE of that GIRL! Why do girls think they can just walk in and take things? That baby you grew inside you, you were the one SICK, you were the one going through everything a woman goes through with pregnancy and she has the NERVE to say she's going to love her just as much as JON?

No way in HELL. I would have loved to have punched her for YOU!
Gah, that just irks me.

You will be in my thoughts, Take Care!

~Kitty Von English~

DS: Warren Vernon
Born: Oct. 30th 2006 at 4:55am. 7lbs 15 and a half ounces 19 and a half inches long.

DD: Victoria Marguerite
Born: Nov 26th 2008 at 5:10 7lbs 11oz 19 and a half inches long.

TINKOS
Posts: 6018
1/10/11 12:03 A

Oh Calee! HUG sweetie! I've been thinking of you! I can't even imagine! I can't believe they thought that would be beneficial and that in some way not impact them never having time alone w/ her again! I'm sooo sorry you are going through all this. We are all here for you!!!!

JENNIESJOY
Posts: 5068
1/8/11 6:56 A

Calee! So good to hear from you! I am sorry for all you've been through but I can tell you are doing all you can to have a great future- and that is awesome! Social work is a great career path; there are so many in need of help and guidance out there. I wish you well!! Take care!

SHAN-DAN-HAN
Posts: 10014
1/6/11 9:39 A

Sounds like a good plan Calee! Social work is a calling for a lot of people and they love what they do. Good luck with it!

*Shannon*

DD- Hannah 10/06: 40 lbs of awesome in a tutu!

First we had each other, then we had you- now we have everything.

TEESAK
Posts: 5830
1/6/11 8:46 A

Holy moly, Calee! You sure have been through a lot. Am I understanding correctly that Jon's parents kept Kaydenz for 8 days? I suppose you've had to stop breastfeeding completely or did you pump? I can't even imagine what you've been through. I don't think depression during this time is off the mark - I would be surprised if anybody held up as well as you with all that you're being faced.

We're still thinking of you.

Sam has Brugada Syndrome, a heart arrhythmia. He had a defibrillator implanted at 11 months old and another surgery to fix the defib Aug 18 this year. Ask me about it sometime.
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MOMMACALEE
Posts: 611
1/6/11 12:59 A

Thank you so much Veronica!!

It really is true when they say "you never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have" It's not how hard you hit the ground, it's how fast you get back up and I took action RIGHT AWAY, I'm not going to fail! I'm currently attending a program for the month of January which is why I call it my "recovery" month. It's all about fighting depression and learning how to cope and accept situations etc. I'm VERY excited for my future and extremely thankful for my parents right now. I also forgot to mention I'm enrolled in school, yay! January 24th I will begin working my way to becoming a Social Worker. I believe I have found my calling!!! Life sure is strange makes me think of that song Beautiful Mess by Diamond Rio .... what a beautiful mess I'm in...

My life is far from perfect... things have happened in my life that look far from perfect but each one has turned into the most perfect, imperfect thing. I have been blessed with three perfect little ones who love me through my imperfections.

"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."

MOMMACALEE
Posts: 611
1/5/11 11:29 P

I thought I would check in after receiving a message from Kitty. Thanks for the kind words ... this has been a struggle and definitely not the way I have pictured my life. Wow ... never in a million years did I see myself as a mom of three at 22 AND single ...battling for my children. BECAUSE of this current situation Jason and I have worked lots out with Eythan and Dayvinee ... he no longer holds them for "power" ... completely split time with them ...still I hate SHARING! but it's in their best interest AND he's an amazing dad. Jon is an amazing dad too ...what happened during the last months of my pregnancy was not ok and it's been tough but I've been getting through ...finding the positives in every situation is who I am and I'm overcoming everything with help and it's definitely enhanced myself as a person for sure!! I just wanted to clear up what REALLY happened when I had updated my status ... no Kaydenz was not returned late time wise, his parents actually did not want to give her back as they felt that I would start keeping her from them ... after dealing with the police and other authorities it took eight DAYS to have my baby home. I deleted facebook for now because of this situation and I'm using this month as a "recovery" month for everything I have gone through ..focusing on myself and my children. Life has been very very interesting!!!

*edit* i just wanted to add how grateful i am for all of you ladies and for thinking of me. you all are so wonderful!!!! I hope everyone had a great christmas and new years!

**second edit** I should add in WHY they thought I would be holding Kaydenz from them ... I had a little run in with the girl Jon left me for and she had the nerve to say "I'm sorry for everything I just want to hug you even though you probably want to punch me" well obviously ...and then she proceeds to go on about how badly she wants me to accept her and how she wants to meet Kaydenz and would respect me by not replacing me as her mother and would love her just as much as she loves Jon. You can see WHY I was so flippin mad, NO WAY will SHE EVER hold my baby which is why I had told Jon in the first place that he will never be allowed to just take Kaydenz.

Edited by: MOMMACALEE at: 1/6/2011 (01:20)

SHAN-DAN-HAN
Posts: 10014
1/5/11 11:08 A

Glad she is ok. I hope she can get her life straightened out and get custody of all her children again.

*Shannon*

DD- Hannah 10/06: 40 lbs of awesome in a tutu!

First we had each other, then we had you- now we have everything.

JENNIESJOY
Posts: 5068
1/5/11 9:38 A

oh i'm glad you heard back from her, kitty! i hope she can work through all she needs/wants to and can be happy :)

DANNI2006
Posts: 8397
1/4/11 10:07 P

Glad to know she is ok. Thanks for letting us know, Kitty!

Alexander Dominic
10/12/06 @ 1:41AM
9lbs 1oz
20 3/4inches

Noah Richard
1/17/11 @ 1:50PM
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DANNI2006
Posts: 8397
1/4/11 8:24 P

Thinking of Calee hope all is well!

Alexander Dominic
10/12/06 @ 1:41AM
9lbs 1oz
20 3/4inches

Noah Richard
1/17/11 @ 1:50PM
6lbs 9oz - 19in

AMANDA_BETH
Posts: 1499
1/4/11 12:47 P

I'm so glad that you asked, because I was worried too- I had actually tried to check on her a few days before that but her profile was down then too- and then she put it up and posted about him not bringing her back. I'm really worried about her!

*I was MommyMandy*

Arianna Elizabeth born on 10/2/06
38wks 1 day, 8 pounds and 21.5 inches long!

Alaynna Rose born 11/2/09 @ 38weeks 3 days 8 pounds 10.3 ounces, 20.25 inches long!

JENNIESJOY
Posts: 5068
1/4/11 6:33 A

Thanks Kitty for sending her a message. I hope you- and us- hear that she is doing okay. I hadn't remembered her and Jon weren't together but what a relief you speculate Jon was just late in returning her.
She's a sweetie- and so beautiful... It's just such a shame her heart has been played with. I really feel for her and pray and hope she continues to find what she's after.

KITTYVONENGLISH
Posts: 2627
1/4/11 1:13 A

I will keep you all posted if I hear back from her, but I don't think she'll email me back.
I hope she turns up soon....maybe she just needs a break from everything.
Jon and her Share custody of baby... she and Jon broke up a long time ago. I thought they were back together again but I don't think it worked out.

Keep thinking of her girls. :(

TEESAK
Posts: 5830
1/3/11 10:22 P

Wait, I meant he gets shared custody. Sorry, NAK keeps me from writing everything out.

JACOBYJUNK
Posts: 4675
1/3/11 10:00 P

Thanks for the update Kitty!!!

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CARYNMB
Posts: 5969
1/3/11 9:47 P

He has custody? Wow! Calee has been through so much... I hope she is doing okay!!

~Caryn~
www.inspiringbirth.com

Carter Jackson 10/19/06
Sydney Nicole 12/11/08
Caleb Asher 9/1/10
Shelby Morgan 2/9/12 (my VBAC baby!)

TEESAK
Posts: 5830
1/3/11 9:31 P

No, they broke up while she was still pregnant. He gets custody of Kaydenz now.

Kitty, I'm glad to hear he returned her. That girl has so much going on anyway - I know I'd be pretty ticked if I didn't get Hudson (or the other kids) back when I was supposed to. Hudson and Kaydenz are just a few days apart, actually. She joined my November group too.

KITTYVONENGLISH
Posts: 2627
1/3/11 5:09 P

As to that msg she posted, it was about Jon taking Kady for his visit. He didn't return her on time.
But I believe she did get her back, from another couple posts done by Jon's family members.

I don't have that great of contact with her. She usually emailed me once in a while with what was going on with her life.

:( I hope she comes back to babyfit to see us! :)

KITTYVONENGLISH
Posts: 2627
1/3/11 5:05 P

Hey Gals, I just noticed it now that she isn't on anymore... I just emailed her and will see if I get a response. She's changed her blackberry number so many times I don't have it anymore.

I pray she is okay and she at least gives us a hey, I'm okay sometime soon. :)

JACOBYJUNK
Posts: 4675
1/3/11 3:41 P

Did anybody talk to Kitty? I hope everything is ok with Calee!!!

Zacharys montage http://tinyurl.com/32ralh

SHAN-DAN-HAN
Posts: 10014
1/3/11 2:53 P

I think they did Jen. I believe she still didn't have custody of her older children.

She must have taken down her FB page, which means she is probably physically ok. Didn't she once take down her BP because of issues with her other ex?

*Shannon*

DD- Hannah 10/06: 40 lbs of awesome in a tutu!

First we had each other, then we had you- now we have everything.

TEESAK
Posts: 5830
1/3/11 10:23 A

I can't find her account either, I suppose it was deleted like you said. That IS disturbing! I wonder what is going on? It was such a horrific situation b/n her and her boyfriend anyway - he left her for his hairdresser while she was still preggo. I thought things were going better b/c she moved in with her parents and they were helping, but it sounds like things got rough. I wonder why she would delete her account?

We can ask Kitty - she's on FB.

CARYNMB
Posts: 5969
1/3/11 10:05 A

I was very worried about that too! I just checked FB and her page is indeed gone! I think she and Kitty are good friends... maybe she can get in touch?

~Caryn~
www.inspiringbirth.com

Carter Jackson 10/19/06
Sydney Nicole 12/11/08
Caleb Asher 9/1/10
Shelby Morgan 2/9/12 (my VBAC baby!)

JENNIESJOY
Posts: 5068
1/3/11 6:56 A

Hey Ladies!! This may be out of the blue... but is anyone is contact with Calee?? She posted something disturbing on facebook and few days ago and I woke up in the middle of the night with her on my mind and heart like crazy- I couldn't even sleep. I checked my facebook and, unless it was a fluke or she blocked me for some reason, I think her account is deleted.

So why I'm worried... She wrote something about her boyfriend who was once her best friend is now her greatest enemy. And something about him cheating and lying, but the biggest betrayal was when he didn't return Kaydenz to her that night!!
Kaydenz is her newly born daughter. Several posted after her status, myself included, asking if she got her back etc etc but I never saw a response. And now it's been days and her account is gone??

I'm not the best at texting etc, and I don't have her number. But I know lots of you are better at communication and have each other's numbers. If anyone has hers, please check in on her. She's got me worried!!

Thanks! :)

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